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Last play of the game, surrounded by 77,000 of the other team’s supporters. Your team is up – but just barely. If they make this field goal, they win… another one, as they are the legendary Notre Dame, ranked 5th in the country. But you feel something deep, you do not need luck, you are on that field at that moment for a reason.

In that moment, Cade Haberman did the same thing he’s been doing since his time under Friday Night Lights in Omaha, Nebraska; he did his job on the field. #51 leapt, and that 6’2, 300-pound frame blocked Notre Dame’s final field goal attempt, securing Northern Illinois’ win in a historic upset for the program. That play became arguably one of the most talked about moments of college football for the coming week. As excited as Huskies fans were in that moment, the communities of Blair, Westside and Gretna, Nebraska might have IMPLODED.

Young men and women like Cade give years of blood, sweat, dedication and sacrifice for moments just like that. And when our hometown kids have moments that become legend, all of us who ‘knew them when’ feel immense pride and joy, like they are representing something bigger than themselves or the game. They represent US.

With that, I present to you the local stars representing our community across the country this fall. Each of them has graciously given me some of their time to share not only the behind-the-scenes tidbits that are part of being a collegiate athlete, but incredible pieces of advice for their youngest fans that extend far beyond the game of football. DISCLAIMER: for 7 years I was blessed to get to know some of these athletes and their families through my work at Westside so YES, I realize there are a lot of Warriors included here. I hope this is the start of an ongoing project to highlight our local collegiate athletes competing in sports as well, so if you’ve got beloved stars you want me and the world to know about from DC West, Papio, Elkhorn South, Bellevue, Ralston, Millard North, WHEREVER – send them my way!

I wonder how many people look at a 311-pound, 6-1 linebacker and think ‘I remember when he trick-or-treated at my house.’ I’m that lady. Arian was a hero in our neighborhood when he played for the powerhouse Gretna Dragons a few years ago. He has never forgotten the power of that hometown feel, telling me about one of the most exciting moments of his collegiate career during a road trip back home last year.

“We went down to Wayne State (Nebraska) for a game,” said Arian. “My family and friends came down to watch the game. I wasn’t starting, however, but four plays in the starting guard got hurt and I ended up playing a full game, in my home state, in front of my people.”

I don’t think a lot of folks fully understand the GRIND collegiate athletes, at all levels, put in for singular moments like that. ‘College life’ stereotypes of late nights and frat parties are non-existent. Every minute is planned, and it must be, to fit everything in.

“Along with classes and homework, I spend hours at practice, travel for games, and work hard to stay in top shape,” said Arian. “My schedule is packed, and it’s tough to find time to relax or hang out with friends. Time management is key because it is expected by both coaches and professors to do well in both school and sports. On top of that, I’m held to a higher standard when I am out in public. It’s not just about representing myself; I also represent my team, coaches, and the entire institution, so there’s always pressure to be on my best behavior.”

When his playing days are over, Arian plans to graduate from Bemidji State with a major in Aquatic Biology and a minor in Aquatic Systems; he wants to work for a fisheries program for any state’s DNR and someday, he hopes to appear on Shark Week. So why do not just enjoy fishing and relaxing now? Less than 1.6% of collegiate football players will make it to the NFL. Why grind, why push, why work countless hours/days/weeks/years for those few moments of glory on the field?

“In every athlete’s life, there comes a moment of doubt, a dark spot where you question your abilities, where you wonder if you’re truly good enough or if you’ll ever make it in your sport,” said Arian. “It’s in these moments that the temptation to quit feels the strongest. But remember this: quitting is not an option. You won’t be able to play the game forever, and if you walk away now, you’ll carry that regret with you for the rest of your life. Push through the doubt, fight through the challenges, and keep going, because every setback is just another step toward your comeback. Embrace the grind, trust your journey, and keep your eyes on the prize. There are only a few guarantees in life: adversity will find you, time will keep moving, and your chance to seize greatness will eventually pass. Make sure that when the final whistle blows, you can say you gave it everything you had, with no regrets and nothing left on the table.”

I hope you check out Arian Garcia and cheer him on this fall, or CLICK HERE to follow him on Twitter. Even if you don’t, read that last paragraph again. THAT is our guy, folks. THAT is Nebraska; maturity, a willingness to work hard for what you want, and inspiring perspective no matter what your challenge, on the field or off.


He just graduated from Harvard Magna Cum Laude in Economics with Psychology secondary. His brother-in-law is Nebraska’s all-time passing leader, Tommy Armstrong, Junior. He could brag ALL DAY about his lengthy resume of athletic, academic and personal achievements, but the first things Kaedyn Odermann wanted to make known in our discussion: that his sister is a state champion soccer player who went on to compete at Nebraska, and that his mom was an All-American basketball player at Minnesota State Moorhead. “I love to flex this!” Kaedyn told me.

You guys: this is literally my life goal. For my children to think I’m cool. I’m cheering for this guy already.

I’m a big fan of Ivy League athletics – Stanford Men’s Gymnastics sent some superstars to Paris over the summer. But here’s the deal: YOU DON’T JUST ‘GET INTO’ HARVARD. It’s HARVARD. Kaedyn Odermann earned his acceptance and graduated from Harvard,through non-stop hard work, dedication, and intelligence.

“No professors give any sort of special treatment (that a lot of people initially associate with college football players), and you are expected to be just as present and perform as well as any other non-athlete student would,” said Kaedyn. “There are no sport specific scholarships. The silver lining is that a lot of courses are competitive, meaning that your grade depends on how well other students perform. Thus, as an athlete who has competitive tendencies, there is some intrinsic motivation. For me, I wanted to get the most out of academics while playing football at a high level. I am extremely thankful to have the opportunity to play football at Harvard, and I have met amazing people in my time here that I would have never met otherwise. It has had a profound effect on who I am as a person and I am excited to see where it continues to lead me.”

Kaedyn has already confronted some difficult hurdles, including a broken hip and resulting surgery after just four games that left him bed-ridden for months. Like any champion (he’s got two Ivy League rings, by the way) he’s viewed those setbacks instead as opportunities; planning to use the extra year of eligibility he gained during injury to transfer to a high-profile business program for post-graduate studies, and always reflecting back on that time to fully appreciate the moments of glory he experiences on the field.

“The most exciting moment for me so far was beating Yale on a last second play my Sophomore year,” said Kaedyn. “A teammate of mine I really looked up to at the time, Kym Wimberly, made an incredible catch to secure the victory. I am extremely excited to host them at Harvard in our last game this season in November, and we will be playing in front of a sold out crowd. The Ivy League Championship usually comes down to that game.”

“To younger athletes, embrace and enjoy the journey along with everything that comes with it!,” said Kaedyn. “Take advantage of every opportunity you get, and never let anyone tell you that you can’t do something. Control what you can control, and as long as you work hard and put your best foot forward, the results will take care of itself. There are always going to be highs and lows in every part of your life, that is part of the learning experience. If you truly embrace the journey, everything can be seen as a lesson. Even the best of the best in the NFL and elsewhere are constantly looking for ways to improve, and have fun doing it.”

CLICK HERE to follow Kaedyn’s football season at Harvard, or CLICK HERE to follow him on Twitter. Selfishly, I hope he also posts some TedxTalks for kids with life advice and ‘why you should always brag about your mom.’ I’d like to add to her resume: All-American basketball player and raised a phenomenal young man.

So you grow up with a Dad who’s basically a football legend in the state of Nebraska, who has become a household name to a new generation through sports broadcasting. And your Mom was a three-year letter winner for the Husker soccer team in the 1990s and played for Team Canada in the 1999 Women’s World Cup. And your grandpa was a groundbreaking coach for the University of Nebraska – Omaha, the first full-time black faculty member at the institution. And your stepmother is a beloved principal at your high school, respected and admired by thousands of students and all of your teachers.

It’s like an after school special storyling for the kid who’s cocky, takes life for granted, and waits for his silver platter of opportunities to be brought to him. Caleb Benning is the exact opposite of every part of that sentence. Everything GOOD from each of the adults who helped shape him has funneled into an outstanding young man and now collegiate athlete for the University of Nebraska.

“Whatever you are trying to do in life or accomplish, work as hard as you possibly can at it, as often as you can, and the rest will sort itself out,” Caleb told me this fall. I first met Caleb during my time as Communications Director at Westside Community Schools. Even as an underclassmen, Caleb was a clear leader in every facet of life at Westside High; in academics, in volunteer work, in supporting school causes, and in every athletic endeavor he tried out for. Always polite and respectful, always the first to step up and lead the way for others. I remember specifically in the summer of 2022, my staff and I organized and hosted our first Westside Back To School Carnival, a huge undertaking for our entire district and community. Caleb and a handful of his Westside Warriors teammates (a few included in this story!) promoted our event, showed up in their football uniforms to hang out with the kids who idolized them, and stayed the entire 4-hours playing catch with students and even volunteering for our dunk tank. From my limited ‘outside looking in’ perspective, Caleb has always seemed to be a young man who GETS it, that this opportunity to wear a jersey and play in the spotlight at Phelps Field or Memorial Stadium is a chance to make an impact and serve others.

“I’m most excited about being able to represent my family IN FRONT of my family,” said Caleb, talking about his first year playing for the Nebraska Cornhuskers this season. “To be able to have the people that have supported me the most in my life, right next to me, is awesome. I know a lot of guys are very grateful to represent their home state and play for Nebraska, but I want to be one of the few that has been able to make it to Nebraska, play and contribute, and eventually make it to the NFL.”

CLICK HERE to follow Caleb’s season at Nebraska! You can also CLICK HERE to follow him on Twitter.

Right around the time Mike Lucas was hired as Superintendent of Westside Community Schools, my son Easton was discovering his LOVE of football. At 9 years old, he would watch replays of games on the Big 10 network. He would ask his Dad questions about play calling and rules of the game. And he begged me to take him to ‘Mom’s work’ to see where the big boys played football. When I shared this with Dr. Lucas, he very graciously offered to let Easton be his ‘special assistant’ at a Friday night football game on the sidelines. I remember three players in particular took time to give Easton fist bumps and make him feel special: Bo Lucas, Cade Haberman, and Cole Payton. They also spoke at elementary schools about the importance of earning good grades and being good teammates. They were dominant student athletes, winning the first state football championship in 28 years and resulting D1 offers across the country. When Cole, one of the most highly touted players to come out of Nebraska that year committed to the NDSU Bison, I swear, the entire state of North Dakota shut down on National Signing Day in anticipation; and yet the then 18-year old remained grateful and humble with every request he received.

“There’s no better feeling than accomplishing the goals my teammates and I have worked so hard for,” Cole told me recently. “Also, the relationships I’ve built through college football are so special and will last forever. Being a college athlete is a full-time job. It’s one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. But it’s also been one of the most rewarding.”

In his role as back-up quarterback at North Dakota State, Cole has played a key role in his team’s success, including his journey on their path to winning the NCAA Division 2 National Championship in 2021. He’s also an exceptional student, earning several academic honors in his conference.

“One piece of advice would be to buy in and trust the process from day one,” said Cole. “The more you put in the more you get out. And don’t get discouraged if you don’t see results right away because good things take time.”

Cole is majoring in Sports Management but hopes to keep playing football as long as possible. Ironically, as I am writing this, another ‘kid from Omaha’ who played football for a D2 school just scored a field goal in the NFL: Greg Zuerlein. And remember North Platte’s Danny Woodhead who played 10-years in the NFL? Chadron State. I’d get your autograph from Cole now before he moves on to the big time – and I have no doubt he’d kindly provide it, no questions asked.

CLICK HERE to follow Cole’s season at North Dakota State, and CLICK HERE to follow Cole on Twitter!

One of the best things about our state and community is, hands down, our incredible people. Throughout my life and career I have been so blessed to work with folks who constantly inspire me through their words and actions; it’s one of the reasons I feel so compelled to write and tell stories. In my time working for Westside, I met and worked with one of THE BEST families in the Midwest, the Habermans. Dad Justin is a longtime football and track coach, now the Varsity Head Coach of the Gretna East Griffins. What I have so respected in his leadership and approach is that it has never just been about sports (although he’s darn good at that!); Coach Haberman wants to nurture and mold outstanding young men. They volunteer throughout the communities where they play. They attend camps and activities to mentor younger athletes. They bring get-well baskets to fellow student athletes – even at other schools – who are injured on the field. Life lessons like these have a profound impact on the kids involved: case in point, the ‘kid’ who became the star of the college football world a few weeks back, 22-year old Cade Haberman, one of the captains of the Northern Illinois Huskies.

“Going into the game, we weren’t given much of a chance. We were 28-point underdogs and all we heard about were the amount of four and five stars on their roster,” Cade told me recently. “On Notre Dame’s first extra-point attempt, I got a lot of push but didn’t quite block it (I didn’t realize how close I was to blocking it until I watched the film). The push on the first extra point gave me a lot of confidence going into Notre Dame’s first field goal attempt before the half. Jogging onto the field our defensive end, and good friend of mine, Jallonie Williams asked me, “Are we going after this?” I responded, “Absolutely!” The next thing I know I feel a sting, as if I was bit by something, and then I realized I blocked the kick. Going into the locker room I was so juiced up! Fast forward to the end of the game, when Notre Dame came onto the field to attempt the field goal as time expired, my position coach called my number to go get this one. That final play felt like it took two minutes, but I felt that same sting from the earlier kick and the party was on! I could hear the faint cheers all the way from the 402!”

Cade’s game-winning heroics won him several more awards to add to an already impressive athletic resume and trophy case. But when asked for his list of achievements, he lists several non-sports things you might not expect: he’s been on the Leadership Council for two years. He leads his team bible study and is an active member of Athletes in Action. He’s also a volunteer (and has been for years) with All-Play, working with younger athletes with disabilities. I still remember attending a school assembly where Cade and his fellow Westside football teammates spoke after winning the state championship; instead of talking about football, Cade used that opportunity to tell hundreds of kids about the importance of good grades, working hard, and always being a good teammate to everyone around you.

“Give back to your community. There are so many people out there who look up to you; set the right example and inspire the dream,” said Cade. “My advice to kids now: handle your school work, take really good notes, because eventually, unfortunately, football will end but your education can never be taken from you. And to younger athletes, enjoy Friday Night Lights. There is truly nothing like it. And if you find yourself in the position where you are being recruited, make your decision based off of relationships with coaches. Don’t chase logos and brands, they mean nothing.”

This may be the start of the playbook for a future Coach Haberman; Cade hopes to follow in his Dad’s coaching footsteps at the college level. Every day, he’s up for 6am meetings, 8am practices, 10am weight training, classes from 11am to 4pm. He’s traveling for games, competing every Saturday and trying to make an impact off the field every free hour he gets. But as grueling as that schedule is, he wants to continue the family business and be around the game for the rest of his life, sharing the same inspiring lessons that impacted him.

“In today’s culture you see people transferring after one good season, ” Cade said in his post-game press conference after the Notre Dame victory. “We truly love each other. We love playing with each other. Our coaches love us. They care about relationships here. It shows.”

That’s how you recruit the best to play for you and represent your program. That’s how you inspire a new generation of players and leaders who will follow. And that’s how you show the country what incredible people come from Nebraska. CLICK HERE to follow Cade’s senior season at Northern Illinois, and CLICK HERE to follow him on Twitter!

I’ve mentored and worked with many young women over the last 25 years; KETV interns, Miss Nebraska contestants and titleholders, amateur athletes and students. One of the most articulate, smart, and driven I’ve ever met is Omaha native, engineering student and now professional football player Erin Mardi. She made history in high school, only the second female in Nebraska to win a football state championship. She inspired and mentored other female students, earning the respect of her male teammates right along with that Varsity jersey and championship ring her senior year.

“To everyone who’s seen my journey at Westside, I’m still kicking!” Erin told me recently. “I’m 19 in September and I’ve played since I was 7 years old. That makes 11 years and 12 seasons. I hope that if anything is to be taken away from my story, it’s that you just have to stay committed to what you enjoy. It doesn’t have to be football, but if you genuinely enjoy what you’re doing then follow it until you absolutely can’t anymore.”

Erin is doing exactly that; along with pursuing an engineering degree at South Dakota Mines, she has also made the Nebraska Pride women’s professional football team roster for two seasons, winning a national championship this year in the Women’s Football Alliance.

“Pro football is pretty tough,” said Erin, who plays wide receiver, corner back, and gunner on special teams. “We are in a unique situation with the WFA since we pay to play and we have to balance school or work with travel and other things. We don’t have as much time to practice so we have to give every bit of focus and effort when we can. It’s also pretty taxing on us with the Pride since most of us play both sides of the ball every game. I enjoy every ache and pain though!”

In their final playoff game to make the national championship, Erin was a key player who contributed to the team’s victory over Oklahoma City, with several punt/kickoff tackles and a muffed punt recovery. With that win, Nebraska Pride became only the second team to beat OKC at home since the team’s creation in 2015.

“I have one more guaranteed season in me before I focus on internships and work stuff,” said Erin. “I’m currently studying to get a degree in Mining Engineering at SDSM&T, so I’m really digging (pun intended) into that. Hopefully when I finish schooling I can get a job close to Omaha to continue playing with the Pride on top of work. We’ll have to see where life takes me.”

Erin – I now work at HDR, a professional services firm with a team of world class engineers. I believe THIS is what they call a full circle moment – let life bring you to HDR where I can continue sharing your inspiring stories! In the meantime for everyone reading this, click here to follow Erin’s success on and off the field, and I hope you’ll consider supporting her team, Nebraska Pride, by attending a game to cheer Erin on next season!!

Little story, nothing to do with football. When I was preparing to compete for Mrs. American, I was also recruiting potential sponsors to help me with expenses. One of the families who generously offered their support was the Rezac family of Omaha, specifically, DJ and Lisa, and their business, KB Building Services. A few short weeks later, after a trip to the ER, two long weeks bedbound and a resulting diagnosis of vestibular neuritis and chronic migraines, it became clear I would not physically be able to make the trip to Las Vegas to represent my state at this prestigious competition. Embarrassed and not a little ashamed that I was too weak to just ‘fight through’, I began contacting each of my sponsors to let them know and refund their money. DJ and Lisa responded immediately: “We don’t want it back. We invest in PEOPLE and believe in you.”

Guys. I can’t tell you how much that kind of message means, especially when you are at your lowest. And that generosity, kindness and belief in the power of community is something DJ and Lisa Rezac have embraced and demonstrated for years in the Omaha area, and taught their children. Their daughter Carly was a key figure in creating Westside High School Dance Marathon, the first of it’s kind for high schools which now raises tens of thousands of dollars annually for Children’s Hospital and Medical Center; Carly now does the same at the University of Arizona. Three of the Rezac boys used their status as some of our state’s most dominant high school athletes to impact causes throughout the Omaha area, speaking at schools, volunteering for district fundraisers, participating with Special Olympics and WE-Side Unified; they are now active with organizations like Heartland Family Service League and Youth Frontiers. Their family photos are a beautiful reflection of the Rezacs’ hearts, as they opened their home to a fellow teammate in 7th grade to move in with them and become part of their family.

And back to that part about sports dominance: the name REZAC in District 66 and throughout the Omaha area is synonymous with SPORTS LEGACY. DJ was one of the most prolific athletes to come out of Westside High School, a multi-sport athlete and member of both the Sports and Alumni Hall of Fames. Of the five Rezac children, THREE are collegiate athletes, FOUR when you include a guy they consider a son and brother, JQ Osler. And in 2023, there were no bigger names in high school sports than Anthony and Teddy Rezac. Quarterback for the back-to-back state champion Warriors (who have since continued a historic 24 game winning streak), Anthony was named the 2023-2024 Nebraska Gatorade Player of the Year and heavily recruited by programs all over the country. Teddy was rated as a 3-star recruit, ranked in the Top 100 national players in multiple categories by several sports outlets. The twin brothers chose Notre Dame.

“It’s got to be the academics and athletics,” Anthony told the Irish Sports Daily shortly after he committed. “The combo of those two is just unbeatable. And while we both knew how hard it was to go Division 1, going to the same school wasn’t necessarily always in the plan, but working out like that, it’s pretty cool and I’m grateful for it.”

Fast forward 9-months, and Anthony is deep in the grind of what it takes to be a collegiate athlete; and grateful for every moment.

“Everyone knows college athletes have busy schedules, but something I don’t think a lot of people take into account is the amount of studying you have to do,” said Anthony, a red-shirt quarterback this year for the Irish. “For your classes, for your sport and position, in addition to the coach led stuff. You’re watching film and going over game plans pretty much every night, on top of the workouts, practices, and meetings you have at the facilities.”

Teddy has already been called upon as a true freshman to contribute to Notre Dame’s success, making his debut on September 15 against Purdue.

“I’d say what I’m most excited about this year at Notre Dame is just learning how to play linebacker, and grow my skills a ton,” said Teddy. “Being a college athlete is awesome, and also isn’t the most fun sometimes. It’s a lot of meetings, practices, lifts, etc. It’s very time consuming, and especially here, where the academic side is difficult.”

And yet as busy as both young men are, they are still finding ways to follow through on what their family has ingrained in them: kindness and service to others.

“I am happy to announce that I’ve created a partnership with the Boys & Girls Club of St. Joseph in South Bend, Indiana,” both brothers shared on social media this month. “I will be providing 2 tickets to every home Notre Dame Football game to a parent/child. I remember going to Nebraska football games as a child and recognize how blessed we were going to games and with the current state of NIL and our family mission of Serving Others this is the first thing we would like to give back towards and serve others. Go Boys & Girls Club. Dream Big & HERE COME THE IRISH!”

To all who admire Anthony and Teddy for their athleticism or character, their advice to others is simple and applicable both on and off the field.

“My advice for younger athletes is a quote that I heard a few years back and is something I think about a lot. Comparison is the thief of joy. You’ve got to focus on yourself and how you’re doing, not as much on other people,” said Anthony.

“My advice would be to look at each day as an opportunity to get better, and don’t compare yourself to others,” said Teddy. “Some guys get offers their freshman season, and some their senior year. Everyone’s journey is different.”

CLICK HERE to follow Anthony on Instagram; CLICK HERE to follow him on Twitter.

CLICK HERE to follow Teddy on Instagram; CLICK HERE to follow him on Twitter.

BUT WAIT, THERE’S MORE! I mentioned THREE of the Rezac men currently play for D1 football programs. Cue eldest brother Dominic Rezac, ALSO an NSAA State Champion, ALSO a highly touted college recruit, now playing for the Vanderbilt Commodores. Dominic is juggling the same rigorous demands on his body and time as described by Teddy and Anthony, and he is also a double major at one of the most taxing private academic institutions in the country.

“It’s one of the hardest things I’ve done, but also the most rewarding,” Dominic told me recently. He has also become a leader in the still-evolving world of NIL opportunities for college athletes. Sports outlets like CollegeNetWorth.com describe Dominic as follows: ‘His athletic talent, combined with strategic branding, positions him well for future financial opportunities. The combination of his on-field skills and off-field marketability makes him a notable figure in college football.’

Smart – and still focused on the things that matter, messages he continues to share with younger athletes (and maybe, his ‘little’ brothers’.)

“Enjoy every minute of your journey and stay in the moment,” said Dominic. “Being able to play sports, no matter the level, is a privilege and creates some relationships that will stand long after your done playing.”

CLICK HERE to follow Dominic on Twitter, and CLICK HERE to learn more about partner/sponsor opportunities!

BONUS CONTENT!

When you tune in to watch these hometown college athletes each week, you may also notice a few local faces calling their games for sports fans across the country. I’m one of the goobers who proudly reminds my boys ‘see him?!? That’s my friend! I know him!’

I don’t think they believe me.

Kevin Kugler is a household name for many sports fans, and nothing short of a legend for those in Nebraska. From Unsportsmanlike Conduct to Big Red Wrap Up, covering every major sport from college to the pros; he’s travelled the world to bring five Olympic Games to sports fans; and yet Kevin Kugler is still that hilarious and caring guy from Omaha who never forgets where he came from. As impressive as his resume is, including winning Nebraska Sportscaster of the Year NINE times, I don’t have enough blog space to share what a great guy Kevin is. (For example – him taking the time to be part of this blog in the middle of a non-stop NFL schedule!) He mentors future broadcast journalists who reach out to him for advice. He will be the first to send a text or message of support or kind words. When I asked him a few years back to record a ‘good luck’ message for my son’s football team heading into the championships, he did so – from the Fox NFL booth, minutes before a big game, with Mark Sanchez right next to him cheering on our Dragons.

“Everyone has a path, but few of them start from Nebraska to get to the highest levels of broadcasting.  I’m extremely fortunate that mine has taken me to where I get to be in an NFL TV booth every week,” said Kevin. “I really do credit being raised here to being able to get along with almost anyone in any situation.  I can live anywhere in the USA that I choose to live, but my family is still in Omaha. My girls were raised in Omaha, schooled in Omaha; it’s the heart of so much that mattered to me as a kid, as an adult, and as a parent and husband.”

“I get excited about the games!” Kevin told me. “We get the chance every week to see something remarkable, and the best thing is, we never know what that remarkable accomplishment might be.  Whether it be an individual or a team accomplishment, I get the best seat in the house to narrate those moments. It’s truly the thrill of my professional lifetime to be able to do that. Imagine being there for a game winning Hail Mary, or a record setting field goal to clinch a playoff berth. That’s what I get to do every single week, and they pay me to do that!  What an amazing thing to call a ‘job!'”

I also asked Kevin the same question I asked the collegiate athletes featured in this article; what would he tell young broadcasters who dream about following in his footsteps?

“My advice is always to never say no. Take any opportunity that comes your way when you are starting out,” said Kevin. “Be ready to make VERY little money at the beginning of the career, but if you get the bug, it’s hard to stop doing it. My path was a longer road than some.. I didn’t have any connections to the industry before deciding to go this route. And more than once, I thought I was going to have to quit and do something else. But I’m very happy that I stayed with it, battled, and continue to get the chance to do something that I love. That’s really the biggest key to a professional life: find something you enjoy, and do it!”

As a fellow parent, I’d be remiss if I didn’t write about the one thing I think Kevin is more passionate about than sports: his family. Waiting for him after every road trip, national championship or Olympic games are three amazing women (one of whom has become very close with our family, Kevin’s outstanding daughter, Cassidy.) I love to remind folks of this every time they sit down to enjoy a big game, particularly on days like the Friday after Thanksgiving, or bowl games around the holidays… sports guys miss everything to bring YOU those games. Yet so often, their families are their biggest cheerleaders supporting every moment of those dreams.

“I’d share the same advice that I share with young aspiring broadcasters, and something that ISN’T brought up in J-school,” said Kevin. “If you are someone who plans to have a personal life, make sure your significant other understands what they are getting into with this career. I’ve missed Thanksgivings, I’ve missed performances; games are on nights and weekends. In other words, games are EXACTLY when your friends want to go out to a bar, or a movie, or a show. Make sure you find someone who is willing to be flexible and understands that the cost of doing this business can, at times, be a normal social life. I got lucky, and married a coach’s daughter. I highly recommend that!”

And what does our hometown guy tell the sports world about home in Omaha, Nebraska?

 “I tell them as little as possible. I don’t want them to move here,” joked Kevin. “But seriously, I brag up Omaha to anyone who asks. Great food scene, underrated music scene, terrific place to raise a family and build a life. If that’s something that interests people (and I believe everyone wants a place to raise a family and build a life), they’re going to hear about it from me!”

Simply THE BEST. Omaha, and the sports superstar representing us. CLICK HERE to follow Kevin on Twitter this season!

“Sports are fun. So covering sports should be, too. My hope is to be entertaining and informative, and in that order. With so many choices on the dial, you have to give people a reason to watch. My goal is to do just that, providing sports coverage in a uniquely entertaining way, without compromising my values.”

I found that in the KETV archives, a quote from my friend Matt dating back 15-20 years. That’s how long ago this New York guy turned Colorado Buffalo took a job in Omaha and turned SPORTS into appointment TV thousands watched because it was side-splitting, tears-running-down-your-face hilarious.

Matt Schick may not have started out as a native Nebraskan, but we adopted him quick, and it became permanent when he married his longtime girlfriend and Lincoln native, Kelly.

“The city, the people, the kindness and the culture; never felt more welcomed by any community,” Matt told me recently. “The fact that I went to the University of Colorado and still call Nebraska home tells you something!”

And if Nebraska made an impact on Matt, he CERTAINLY left his mark here.

First – ignore the anchor girl. Second – I STILL DIE LAUGHING. The story that all of Husker Nation was talking about. Never before had I seen impact like this as a young journalist; stores began selling ‘IN CARL WE TRUST’, and ‘CARLFENSE’ shirts. And years later, when Coach Carl Pelini was hired by Florida Atlantic, the university produced their own line of shirts using the same sayings.

You guys – Matt created stories like this ALL OF THE TIME, on and off camera. Interviewing Elmo about Nebraska Football when Sesame Street Live was on tour in Omaha. Convincing Nebraska Athletics to let a few Huskers play Mario Kart on the 117-foot high big screen at Memorial Stadium. Putting our Sunday night co-ed softball score on the sports ticker during newscasts (sorry, Vonn and Rose Ann – that really happened.) Nearly getting our KETV trio of misfits (myself, Matt and Owen Lei) kicked out of the Omaha Press Club show because we were always laughing at something Matt did. His dedication to making sports fun caught the eye of ESPN, and in 2012, Matt was named to the ESPNU anchor team

“Try everything,” said Matt. “If you want to do television, dabble in radio. If your dream is to write about sports, get used to being in front of the camera. Every job now touches every aspect of media, so don’t paint yourself in a career corner. Get comfortable being uncomfortable. Grow a thick skin; you will be criticized, especially in the sports arena where everyone will think you hate their team. And always question who is saying what, and why they might be saying it. Does that person with that opinion about that team work for a company that has a stake in one conference over another? As Ted Lasso says, ‘be curious, not judgmental.'”

Finally (although I could write a novel here just on Schick Shenanigans), Matt is a man of deep faith. What so admire and respect is he and Kelly share that passion, not by trying to force it upon others, but by inspiring others through their own actions and lifestyle. I have never heard Matt say a bad thing about someone else. He finds joy in making people laugh and in lifting up others (especially his four kids and Kelly.) As I covered the Von Maur shootings in 2007, it was Matt who called my cell to see if he could bring my partner and I some food or anything we might need. I specifically remember a different moment in our newsroom when a colleague was facing some medical challenges; after the newscast when most of the crew had left, Matt gathered that coworker and a few others in a small group prayer for that teammate’s health and healing.

When I asked him to contribute to my little blog, Matt said this on his career: “I get excited about the unknowns: how certain teams will fair, what the biggest stories will be, which little-known college players will emerge and leave their fingerprints on the season.”

I would argue Matt Schick, the ‘little-known guy from Colorado’ left his fingerprints on Omaha and Nebraska, and we’re all better for it.

CLICK HERE to follow Matt on Twitter, or CLICK HERE to follow him on Instagram. And I DARE YOU not to laugh.

I’ve been thinking about kicking up my blog again for years. It’s taken me more than 3 weeks to put this article together. Sometimes I wish I was just content coming home, gardening, cooking and freaking NOT committing to something else, then another, then another. But here’s why I love to tell stories: I was camped out Omaha’s Corner Kick to write while my son was at soccer practice. ESPN was covering Northern Illinois, and how they are crushing all expectations this season. I heard a guy nearby say, “NIU?!?! What the hell?” And unable to help myself, I swiveled and said, “did you see that play a few weeks ago where the kid blocked the kick that won NIU the game? That was a local guy from Blair. He played high school ball here in Omaha and now plays for Northern Illinois.” That guy and his friends were then all ears. Who?? Which one?? What’s his name?? Where did he go to school?

Maybe they just appeased me. But I’d like to think their reaction is how ALL of us feel in Nebraska when one of our homegrown people represents us in a great pursuit. Nebraska nice, Nebraska strong, Nebraska proud.

Keep at it, fellas (and Erin!) We are all rooting for you.

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Rookie Of The Year

A National League pennant on the line. The phone rings; you’re warm. The wall swings open, and with 41,000 fans watching in person and millions more on TV, you jog out, alone, to the pitcher’s mound.

The only thing more nervewracking than that? Being 8+ months pregnant, in the stands, and that pitcher is your HUSBAND.

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By the time Brian Duensing reached his 26th birthday, he had quite the resume: College World Series Athlete, 3rd Round MLB Draft Pick, World Cup Gold Medalist, Olympic Bronze Medalist. He and his wife, Lisa, balanced their time between their hometown of Omaha, Nebraska, and …. wherever Brian’s baseball career sent them. Rochester, where Brian played for the Triple-A Red Wings; Beijing, where he represented Team USA; Fort Myers, Florida for Spring Training.

The one place the Duensings hadn’t set up shop was Minneapolis, the home of the Minnesota Twins and the team that had drafted Brian a few years prior. Even though Brian had assignments with all four of the club’s farm teams, he and Lisa knew that many players spend their entire careers in Minor League baseball, never making it to the Majors.

Photo courtesy Charles Krupa for Twin Cities Pioneer Press

The Twins prepared for the 2009 season, led by their All Stars and Silver Sluggers, Justin Morneau and Joe Mauer.

“We’re still learning,” Mauer told the Twin Cities Pioneer Press reporter Phil Miller. “We still always talk about pitchers, about different approaches, how the ball is moving, things like that. We’re left-handed, so pitchers tend to have the same plan against us.”

They say Three’s Company… and it just so happens, Brian Duensing is a leftie, too.

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“I had the best Spring Training of my career,” remembers Brian, looking back on the weeks he spent in Fort Myers early in 2009. “I didn’t give up a run. I had like, a week of Spring Training left and the running joke between me and Phil Humber was ‘they tell you anything yet?’ ‘No… they tell you anything yet?’ ‘No..’ No one was saying anything to us. We had no idea what was going on.”

Just a few years prior, Brian told Lisa he wanted to quit baseball. It was too much; the constant travel and unknowns of minor league ball, the sleeping on couches and in kitchens with roommates, and the lingering fear of not staying in Triple A to make enough money for rent. (Need a recap? Click here!)

Lisa, Brian’s parents, and a well-timed Nebraska blizzard all helped convince Brian to keep trying.

“I always told myself four years,” says Brian. “I’ll give it four years and if I don’t make it to the Big Leagues, I’m done. I gave it a shot.”

Two years after that decision, Brian was out to dinner with teammates Nick Blackburn and Rob Delaney the night before the last day of Spring Training.

“I get a phone call from <Twins pitcher> Glen Perkins and he’s like, ‘hey man, congrats!'” said Brian. “I was like, ‘what? What’s going on?’ ‘Numbers-wise, you’re in, you made the team.’ I don’t know how it works, I’m just here to play baseball! I start calling everybody: parents are screaming, Lisa is screaming. On the way home, I realize, ‘holy crap. No one has actually physically told me I’m on the team. So now I’m panicked. I just called everybody, told them I was, this could be really bad.”

Lisa, Brian’s best friend and constant source of optimism, stayed positive – and BUSY.

“At this point, I had gone home to pack up our stuff because we didn’t know what was going to happen,” remembers Lisa. “That next morning, I had to start driving with an Expedition full of stuff, starting my way to Minnesota, not knowing if he had actually made it. We thought, worst case scenario I’ll turn around and come back home. But if I hadn’t gone right away, he wouldn’t have had anyone to pick him up, he wouldn’t have anywhere to live, no clothes, nothing.”

Alone, nervous, and a little hungover, Brian arrived at his last day of Spring Training.

“I walk in, sweating, and I sit down by my locker trying to keep it together,” remembers Brian. “Two seconds later, pitching coach pops his head in, ‘Duens, need you in the office now.'” They sit me down. ‘Listen, you had a great Spring Training. Couldn’t ask for anything more. Unfortunately, we can’t take everyone with us.'”

“I’m pretty sure I blacked out,” remembers Brian. “I’m like… oh my gosh. How am I going to make this phone call? Then they said, ‘good thing is though, you’re not one of them. You’re going to Minnesota with us.”

“For we know, brothers and sisters loved by God, that he has chosen you.” 1 Thessalonians 1:4

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ROOKIE OF THE YEAR, Thomas Ian Nicholas, 1993. TM and Copyright © 20th Century Fox Film Corp. All rights reserved. Courtesy: Everett Collection.

Remember Rookie of the Year? The awesome baseball movie from the 90’s you say you’ve never seen but secretly watched a dozen times? No shame – I love this movie. BUT… I must have missed that part in the movie when Henry Rowengartner gets the standard rookie treatment from his new teammates.

“I was not nervous about baseball. I wasn’t nervous about pitching. I wasn’t nervous about facing big league hitters,” says Brian, the ONLY rookie on the Minnesota roster in 2009. “I was nervous about sitting in someone’s seat. Or making the wrong person mad. Or not following road trip protocol.”

Brian’s first test came early: his first flight to Minnesota, just hours after finding out he’d made the team.

“Mike Redmond asks, ‘what kind of carry-on do you have?’ I was like, I have a laptop bag?” says Brian. “Redmond’s like ‘that’s not gonna do. Find a way. There’s two cases of beer back there and they need to go on the plane.'”

At that point, Redmond, sharing catcher duty for the Twins with Mauer, was an 11-year league veteran and 2003 World Series champion, known for skillfully guiding pitchers and for his leadership within the team. Mike spoke; players listened.

“The thing is, everyone liked Brian from the beginning because he appreciated those rules,” says Lisa. “He respected the unwritten rules.”

Back to that first plane ride; Brian found two trash bags, loaded up what he could, and boarded the Twins team bus in a suit, carrying a laptop bag and 36 pounds of beer.

“‘See so and so? Go sit next to him’,” remembers Brian. “I am sweating profusely because I’m carrying 48 beers, I’m hot, I’m nervous, my suit fit terribly and I was pitting out like you wouldn’t believe. We pull up on the tarmac, and all of the sudden it occurs to me, ‘are these guys messing with me? Am I going to get cavity searched because I have all this beer?’ We get to security and the guy rips open the trash bags – not just unties the bags, he shreds them. He says ‘you’re joking, right? These aren’t three ounces or less!’ I’m like, ‘ummm, ummm, ummm…’ and he says ‘I’m messing with you, get on the plane.’”

“I walked onto that plane with 48 beers. I walked off the plane with 45 beers. I’m like, are you kidding me!?!” Remembers Brian. “Mike Redmond’s like, ‘I don’t care if you bring 15 beers or if you bring 100 beers. We run out of beers, and it is the end of you.’ I’m like, ‘Cool. Got it.’ I bought a new suitcase for it. Redmond, one of the greatest guys ever, but he was like ‘Duens, there better be two Bud Lights in my locker at the end of each game. Every single game.’ I’m like ‘alright, great.’ 90 percent of the time I remembered. A few times, where the bullpen was, I couldn’t get there in time and he would just air me out. Later, he was a Manager for the Marlins, then coaching for Colorado, and every time we played against them I had two Bud Lights ready.”

Brian Duensing made his Major League Baseball debut on April 10, 2009 against the Chicago White Sox. Temperature at game time: 46-degrees.

“It was freezing,” remembers Brian. “AJ Pierzynski was the first hitter I faced. I broke his bat, jam job to first base, he dog-cussed me the whole way, out loud. Every name in the book. Morneau fielded the ball, tossed it to me, 3-1 put out. I whipped my head around like ‘what is this guy’s problem??’ Morneau was laughing and said, ‘relax. You’ll understand someday.’ That was just how AJ played.”

Brian’s family was all in Chicago to see his big league debut in person. Brian’s parents drove from Minneapolis to Kansas to drop off grandparents, and then turned around and drove to Chicago for the White Sox series. Somehow they knew their son was going to throw. Lisa had also driven cross country just days before from Florida to Minnesota, only to leave Minnesota immediately to watch her husband’s new team.

“I remember driving into town with my parents,” remembers Lisa. “My Dad could not handle Chicago traffic, we didn’t know how to get anywhere, hurrying to get to the game.”

Brian threw almost four innings in relief that day; he gave up his first home run to Carlos Quentin, struck out his first batter, Brian Anderson, and picked off a runner at second.

“It hit me on the run in because I couldn’t feel my legs,” remembers Brian. “That’s when I knew; I was like, ‘oh my God, what is happening. Oh my God, oh my God, oh my God. I felt like Rookie of the Year; ‘oh my God, oh my God, oh my God!’ I was freaking out.”

The Twins won that day 12-5; it was Easter weekend. As they prepared for their next series against the Toronto Blue Jays, Brian was sent back to Triple-A.

“Don’t be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be discouraged, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you. I will hold you up with my victorious right hand.” — Isaiah 41:10

After so much excitement and hope, the Duensings were back in Rochester.

“I’m trying to set up an apartment, wondering, ‘should I even be setting up an apartment?’ Remembers Lisa. “Just like Brian, if he would have one bad game, he would call his Academic Advisor back at Nebraska and say there was no way he was going to make it, he needed to finish his degree. That happened for a few years, and she stopped responding to him.”

July 2009: Rochester had a road trip to Buffalo, so Lisa went along and the two used an off day to visit a casino at Niagara Falls. The next day, Brian was called into the team office – he was being called back up to Minnesota.

“It was out of the blue to us,” says Lisa.” We were living in a hotel. I drove Brian to Rochester to get all of his stuff, then back to Buffalo to make his flight, all in just a few hours. Then I packed up our entire life so I could drive through the night to Minneapolis. I drove by myself for 16 hours, thinking, ‘ok, we were here for 9 days and he threw once or twice, whatever.’ First game, pitcher got pulled it the third inning and here comes Brian, bases load, no outs, Yankees.”

Photo courtesy John Autey for Twin Cities Pioneer Press

“I come in and the first guy I face is Mark Texiera,” says Brian. “He popped it up infield. In my head, I’m thinking, I’m one pitch away from getting out of this jam, and I’m gonna freaking fist bump everyone. Then… Alex Rodriguez. I’m like, holy shit, I completely forgot he is on deck. He hits a freaking missile to center and Carlos Gomez robs him of a grand slam, over the fence.”

“No, we’re not joking,” adds Lisa. “The opening of Sportscenter featured Gomez catching that ball.”

Brian ended the inning and solidified his spot on the Minnesota Twins’ roster in 2009.

“Let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart. Then you will win favor and a good name in the sight of God and man.” — Proverbs 3:3

After five years of constant moving and uncertainty, living in kitchens and hotel rooms, hoping and praying together and apart.. the Duensing finally found home in Minneapolis, Minnesota.

Brian’s first starting outing: in Minneapolis at the Metrodome, the only year Brian played there. “I remember him throwing very well,” says Lisa. “They were so good that year.”

His first winning start: Twins vs. Royals in Kansas City, where Brian got to play against his good friend and former teammate Alex Gordon. “Whole family was there,” says Brian. “We had the entire third base left field side bleachers because back then, Kansas City sucked. Got my first win, went 5 1/3 innings. And it just kind of kept going.”

Two months later, just three months after being recalled from Triple-A, the Twins called upon Brian to start Game 1 of the 2009 ALDS against CC Sabathia and the New York Yankees in Yankee Stadium.

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“Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.” — Philippians 4:8

Brian was officially named part of Minnesota’s starting rotation in 2010, the same season he threw his first of TWO complete game shut outs, agains the Oakland Athletics in August. He did it again versus the Tampa Bay Rays in July 2011.

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The first person to congratulate Brian after his final out… his catcher and friend, Joe Mauer. THAT is what Brian and Lisa both talk about when you ask them about their favorite memories in Minnesota; yes, the baseball, but also, the people.

Those two All Stars, Joe Mauer and Justin Morneau, became Brian’s closest friends in Minneapolis, along with teammates like Matt Guerrier and Josh Willingham. Maddie Mauer, Ginger Willingham and others, became confidantes and constant companions for Lisa. Friendships extended to Twins staff, club employees, and Twins’ beat reporters. They raised their families together. They suffered losses and celebrated memories together. They understood each other in a way others outside the game cannot. For two Omaha ‘Nebraska Nice’ natives like Brian and Lisa, Minnesota was an extension of Midwest hospitality and family connectivity.

“I am ridiculously proud of his accomplishments on the field, but when I think of Minnesota my first hundred memories would be with people or things off the field,” says Lisa. “That’s the thing about baseball people miss is you do life with those people. You spend more time with them than you do anyone else in your entire life. Even your best friend, you don’t talk to that person for four hours straight every, single day for eight months like you do the girls with the team. Some days, I would come to the game and not even go to the field. I would just sit and talk to the security guard. Or the same person who had our tickets every game; for years and years. When I found out I was pregnant, our chaplain went with me to my ultrasound because Brian was on the road. I had two miscarriages there. You do life with those people, and when you leave, you are leaving so much more than the game.”

For Brian and Lisa.. that day came in February 2016. Brian, who had spent his entire career with the Minnesota Twins organization, seven of those years in Minneapolis, became a free agent and signed with the Kansas City Royals. The Duensings left Minnesota as a family of almost-5… no longer rookies to life in the Majors, but preparing to start all over again just as they had in 2009.

“The day we left, I was hysterically bawling,” says Lisa. “I was saying goodbye to the ticket people, the security guards, the people who ran the playroom. I always tell people it was a revolving door for so many years; someone gets traded and boom, they’re gone, within the day sometimes. Brian and I were always on one side of the door, which was a huge blessing. Not many people play that long, or play in one place. It was really hard to say goodbye to all of those people.”

“It felt very much like home,” says Brian. “We had a great group of people.”

“The Lord bless you and keep you; The Lord make His face shine upon you, And be gracious to you; The Lord lift up His countenance upon you, And give you peace.” — Numbers 6:24–26

On to Kansas City.. with a new mission and outlook looming on the horizon.

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Catch up on the first two installments of the Duensings’ story!

CLICK HERE to read Part 1: Major League

CLICK HERE to read Part 2: American League

Me, Myself and I

Disclaimer – I am fully aware of how NERDY the following sentences will sound.

Guys, last night I did something I haven’t done in YEARS – AND IT WAS AWESOME.

After spending the last few seasons stepping up to the plate, awkwardly chucking the bat forward, and dinging a ball back to the pitcher, last night I gracefully swung, connected and propelled that beautiful neon softball over the heads of the outfielders, running to catch up.

It was glorious.

I used to be good. I used to connect. I used to be FAST. 30 pounds and 20 years later, I am slow. I second-guess myself. I don’t know what happened to my coordination. My self-esteem has plummeted along with my batting average.

WHY?!?! It’s slow-pitch, co-ed softball for crying out loud.

Because I DON’T FAIL. If I do something, I want to KICK ASS at it. I want to dominate. Last night, after two at bats and two line drive hits, I felt like I had re-discovered a long lost figment of my formerself.. and I felt like I could fly.

It was a high I really needed. I feel like I’m riding a never-ending roller coaster, battling with my weight, my age, what I want to be as a wife and mother, and all of my other self-imposed goals that seem so far out of reach. For one brief hour, I felt like: ‘I’M AWESOME’.

I think we, as women, constantly compete with ourselves and the inner voices that say ‘you SHOULD be THIS.’ It’s a battle that, at just 20-years old, a Doane University student is aware off, and tries to use to her advantage rather than detriment.

Allison Baird - Miss Star City

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“Maya Angelou said that, ‘success is liking yourself, liking what you do, and liking how you do it’,” said Allison Baird. “I am in competition with no one but myself, and if at the end of the day I like who I am and what I do in all areas, whether it be scholarship, service or style, than I have been successful.”

A mature outlook from a woman just starting to discover her adult-self and what she’s capable of. She credits a passion for telling stories, embracing each person’s background and motivation. Often, she channels that through theatre, as a Doane University student on scholarship for the arts.

“I get to play characters all the time,” said Allison. “Some who are similar to me and some who are nothing like me, but still none of them are me. This experience allows me to fully and completely be Allison. In theatre, we call it character work when we research a character that we’re going to play. This allows us to play that character with the utmost amount of truth and integrity. Now, the Miss Nebraska program is helping me to do my ‘character work’ on myself.”

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Allison was crowned Miss Star City 2018 in January, a return to a program she’d competed in for several years as a teenager from Gering, finishing 1st Runner Up twice at the Miss Nebraska’s Outstanding Teen pageant.

“I competed as a Miss, won my first local, and made Top 5 at state,” said Allison. “I was thrilled. I took a year off and decided to come back this year because I finally know my why. I became passionate about something, and knew and felt called to compete again.”

Allison found power and inspiration through children. I’ve seen it firsthand in her interactions with my own two boys; this girl instantly relates to kids through their innate creativity, curiosity and positivity.

“My platform is ‘Little But Fierce’, which not only advocates for fine arts education in schools, but also helps kiddos of all ages find their voices through fine arts curriculum,” said Allison. “I have had the opportunity to speak to our state’s representatives about funding and goals, but I have also had the pleasure of visiting surrounding schools and doing workshops with after school programs and classrooms. My goal is to encourage children to be the star of their show. To stand up for what they believe in and discover the voice within that might be little, but it is fierce. Confidence. Character. Compassion. The arts can teach kids those skills, and can translate to all areas of their education and beyond.”

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Allison is sharing that message not only through her words, but through her actions, as both a performer and a public servant, volunteering throughout her college community, her hometown, and abroad.

“You want to see change? I’ve seen girls with a crown do more for their communities in one year than many politicians do in their entire term,” said Allison. “We are dedicated, service-oriented, and committed to making the world around us a better place.”

 

 

And Allison considers many of her fellow titleholders, past and present, her closest allies and sources of inspiration.

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“My favorite moment was actually after crowning! I had decided pretty late int he game that I was going to compete for Miss Star City, so my family and friends weren’t able to come watch,” said Allison. “Seeing that I was a ‘loner’, former Miss Nebraska Alyssa Howell, her roommate Megan, and current Miss Nebraska Allison Tietjen crowded over me for a picture. I felt overwhelmed with gratitude and it was a reminder of the sisterhood this organization instills. Some of the most inspiring, supportive, encouraging ladies are there to step in as your ‘family’ and share in your victories.”

Which reminds me of softball. When I ran into the dugout after my first and then second hit, I was greeted by high five after high five from my teammates who are also among my closest friends. They were genuinely thrilled, I felt, not for the fact that we got a run or two out of the deal, but that I had FINALLY remembered how to bat. How to succeed. How to smile and enjoy WHY we still play all these years later.

It’s just softball. But for a few shining moments, I felt like the BEST version of myself. When so often these days I question what I look like, what I say, how I act, what I do… it was nice to feel GREAT.

That is what this program does for so many young women – it helps them focus on the best parts of themselves, to empower others, to showcase what they love.. and to be rewarded for that with smiles, encouragement, and some really nice prizes and scholarships to boot. It’s not just a pageant.. it’s a way to provide these incredible people with countless opportunities for greatness.

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Allison Baird will tell you she wants to win this competition next month. But she’ll also tell you she sees and understands the bigger, more important contest… with herself. Winning the game isn’t about how far you hit the ball, it’s figuring out WHY it felt so damn good, and how to channel that every day off the field.

“I’m working to better myself everyday,” said Allison. “I’m always working toward growth, and if I like who I am, what I wear, and what I say on the Miss Nebraska stage, that’s a victory for me. I’m staying true to Allison this year. No need to be anyone but her.”

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To follow Miss Star City Allison Baird, click here.

WANT TO LEARN MORE ABOUT ALLISON?

CLICK HERE * 2016 * Standing Tall

CLICK HERE * 2015 * Just Add Glitter

CLICK HERE * 2014 * Special Feature, Nebraska’s Outstanding Teens

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The Miss Nebraska Scholarship Competition takes place June 7-9 in North Platte, Nebraska.

CLICK HERE to follow the Miss Nebraska Organization on Facebook

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PREVIOUS.. Miss Twin Rivers Hayden Richardson

NEXT.. Miss Sandhills Regan Kolbo

Hoops For Hope

Be Great.

That was the Westside Warriors motto from day one of winter sports practice. Their coach asked them, what is your goal this season? The girls varsity team answered collectively: they wanted to be great. ‘What does that mean?’ Coach Clark responded.

I reached out to Coach Clark in November to see if some of his girls would be willing to visit Westside elementary schools for assemblies or guest opportunities; they had already been doing it for several weeks. They even volunteered at the District Kindness Retreat, mentoring students one on one. Their message: don’t make excuses, and don’t place blame. Love each other.

It was around this time these student athletes were also forced to practice what they preached; they’d suffered a tough loss to a top team in Class A, and lost their #2 and #3 players to season-ending injuries. They told each other and classroom after classroom, we won’t be defined by our challenges. We don’t make excuses. We don’t place blame. We love each other.

Every game day, the Warriors gathered together as a team for breakfast to reconnect and focus. After select home games, they ate pizza with a younger team, invited as their special guests. Their message when things got hard and when things started going right: no matter what happens, we won’t make excuses. We won’t place blame. We love each other.

District Champs

January – Westside won the Metro Holiday Tournament for the first time in 15 years.

February – Westside won the District Championship and a ticket to State.

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March – Westside won the NSAA Class A State Championship for just the 3rd time since Girls Basketball became a sanctioned sport in Nebraska. Their 28 wins in the 2017-2018 season set a new school record.

Monday night, less than 48 hours after their victory.. these players attended the 8th grade league championship, to support the younger girls they had invited to one of their games weeks earlier.

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Michael Jordan once said, “Obstacles don’t have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don’t turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.”

The Westside Warriors seemed to understand early on that to Be Great was so much more than taking the top prize at the end of the season; it was about meeting every challenge, and sharing what they learned with others along the way.

Jessica Shultis gets it, too… both the game, and the message.

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She was a multi-sport high school athlete who went on to play collegiate basketball for Doane University. She had barely begun.. when everything in her world changed.

“During my sophomore year of college, I was diagnosed with a rare form of cancer,” Jessica told me. “I [now] speak to students about what it takes to overcome obstacles, whether it is bullying, academic struggles or terminal illness.”

 

 

At 23 years old, Jessica found a way to open more doors to share her story ,when she was crowned Miss Kearney and qualified to compete for the title of Miss Nebraska 2017. She finished as 2nd runner-up. Just months ago, Jessica was crowned Miss Lincoln.

“People are far more receptive to having Miss Lincoln come speak as opposed to simply Jessica Shultis. The title gives me an excellent platform to talk about issues that are important to me as well as make a difference in my community,” said Jessica. “Thanks to my connections in the basketball community, I am able to host fundamental camps free of any expense to myself, called Hoops for Hope. Due to the generous donations of others, all proceeds raised directly benefit Children’s Hospital in Omaha.”

But once again, Jessica faced challenges in her journey. At the ‘ripe old age’ of 24, Jessica was past the ‘age cutoff’ for women who hope to compete for Miss America and their state title, and didn’t think she’d be able to get a second chance to represent the state where she’s been her entire life.

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“I fell in love with the job of Miss Kearney and was devastated that I only had one opportunity to compete at Miss Nebraska,” said Jessica. “Even though I didn’t walk away with the crown last year, I walked away with thousands of dollars in scholarships that I was able to apply to my educational endeavors. As someone who has completed her Bachelor’s degree and is about to complete a Master’s degree, I cannot emphasize the importance of scholarships enough.”

Then in January, the Miss America Organization announced a historic decision allowing women up to 25 years old to compete. It was the chance Jessica had been watching and waiting for.

“The week before the Miss Lincoln Pageant was a roller coaster waiting for confirmation,” said Jessica. “Friday night before the Saturday pageant, at 11pm, I received a text from Miss Nebraska Executive Director Rachel Daly that I was cleared to compete. I could hardly sleep that night, so I competed on pure adrenaline that stemmed from my excitement to step onstage again.”

Jessica Shultis is a woman who has set goals for herself her entire life. This summer, she will transition into the role of Human Resources Manager with that new Master’s Degree. She plans to earn her Ph.D. in Industrial and Organizational Psychology. She wants to continue advocating for equality across all social classes, races, and sexes, inspired by women like Oprah Winfrey and the other titleholders she’s gotten to know through the Miss Nebraska program.

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Just like her basketball sisters 50 miles east, Jessica wants to be great. Her state championship trophy is the Miss Nebraska crown.

“I want to walk away knowing that I did everything I could to prepare,” said Jessica. “These ladies know the hard work and dedication it takes to succeed in all aspects of life.”

Don’t make excuses. Don’t place blame. Love each other.

Be Great.

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Photo courtesy Olivia Washburn for Westside Journalism

“Love always wins. Love conquers fear. Love is what makes a team. I can whole-hearted say I love my team like sisters. We are truly better together.” – Elizabeth Robinson, Westside Warriors Basketball Player

“I’ve had the opportunity to share my message about the importance of never losing hope. While I hope I’ve had an impact on the kids in attendance, I leave a better person because of each of them.” – Miss Lincoln, Jessica Shultis.

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To follow Miss Lincoln Jessica Shultis on Facebook, click here.

WANT TO LEARN MORE ABOUT JESSICA?

CLICK HERE * 2017 * The Chameleon Queen

For more information about the Miss Lincoln/Miss Star City Pageant or to become a contestant, CLICK HERE to visit their site on Facebook.  You can also email Director Christy Merritt at Christy.Merritt@TheWaterFord.net.

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The Miss Nebraska Scholarship Competition takes place June 7-9 in North Platte, Nebraska.

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PREVIOUS.. Miss Fur Trade Days Outstanding Teen Gabriella Wagner

NEXT.. Miss Alliance’s Outstanding Teen Chloe Blumanthal

Finding Our Purpose

Westside Superintendent Dr. Blane McCann delivered a BRILLIANT speech at our District’s commencement ceremony last weekend. His theme: purpose. In front of thousands of graduates, parents, family members and educators, he said in part..

Purpose is the little flame that keeps you going. Your challenge after today is to find that flame: your purpose. It is something that your parents can’t find for you; you have to look for it. It’s not always easy to find. Every, single one of you has a unique purpose to fulfill.

Every single one of us is here for a reason.

Think about that.

My friend Lisa recently told me something that I have thought about off and on ever since. Her husband is Brian Duensing, a pitcher for the Chicago Cubs.

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Brian was one of the best pitchers the University of Nebraska – Lincoln has ever produced. He’s an Olympian, representing the United States on the 2008 US Baseball team in Beijing. He was a starter for the Minnesota Twins for years, and now plays for the World Champions in Chicago. He and Lisa could do anything, enjoying his success and living a life few only dream of. Instead, these happily married parents of three devote every, waking hour to their passions: family and doing everything in their power to ensure happiness for other families.

As Brian’s fame grew, he and Lisa started receiving T-shirts in the mail, asking him to share support for pediatric cancer patients across his popular social media accounts. The Duensings embraced the challenge; every day of every September, Brian sports a new shirt and shares information about that child and their cause. He and Lisa started the Brian Duensing Foundation, a non-profit organization taking these fundraising efforts to an even higher level. Every game, as players wives sit in the stands, Lisa sits in the family lounge and works for hours on Foundation plans and ideas, like their now annual fundraiser bringing baseball’s biggest names to Omaha to raise money for pediatric cancer-related causes.

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The Brian Duensing Foundation Event in 2015 at Ralston Arena. I was honored to emcee the fundraiser and VIP Q&A session with World Series Champion Alex Gordon, Duensing, future Hall of Famer Joe Mauer and the MLB’s first ambidextrous pitcher Pat Venditte.

The Duensings have raised HUNDREDS OF THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS for Nebraska based causes that help families battling cancer. That text I mentioned that Lisa sent me?

“These are the reasons God made Brian a baseball player. I know it.”

This year, Brian and Lisa Duensing will focus their purpose on a little boy named Sammy.

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At four years old, Sammy Nahorny was diagnosed with Neuroblastoma, a solid tumor that begins on immature nerve cells, and is very difficult to treat. Many cases of Neuroblastoma begin in the abdomen, and commonly affect the adrenal glands. Within days of his diagnosis, Sammy had surgery; doctors told his parents his cancer was Stage 4 and high risk. His mom, Erin and dad, Chris, immediately started researching options.. and found few. Their quest for hope was far-reaching and relentless, not just for Sammy, but for every other child facing this terrible disease. Their community in Columbus rallied, drawing the support of not only the Duensings, but of Miss Nebraska USA 2014 Amanda Soltero, Olympic Gold Medalist Curt Tomasevicz, music superstar Jason Derulo and more. They all united to become Sammy’s Superheroes… and have raised hundreds of thousands of dollars and counting for research, assistance and more. Just as importantly, they have become a voice, loud and clear, for all children and families regarding legislation, funding and awareness.

This superhero squad has grown yet again in recent months.

Miss Gering 2017 Alayna Wilson

“This is a great organization that started in my hometown!” Alayna told me recently. “Sammy’s Superheroes raises awareness to pediatric cancer and has helped many families who are affected by this. I’ve had many family members fight this hard battle and I’m happy that I am able to help this cause.”

Alayna Wilson is a recent graduate of Scotus Central Catholic, a cheerleader for both her school and her entire hometown of Columbus, Nebraska. A girl with a constant smile and self-described ‘bubbly and happy’ personality, she was looking for a way to make a bigger difference advocating for causes like Sammy’s Superheroes.

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She found it when crowned Miss Gering 2017 in February.

“I love the stage and helping others,” Alayna said. “I wanted to spread my platform and this was the best way possible. I perfected my paperwork, platform and talent and drove to North Platte for one of the best weekends of my life.”

And a BUSY one at that, much like every other weekend in Alayna’s jam-packed senior year. She’s a competitive dancer, and a member of the All-American team by the National Cheer Association. The same day she met her fellow titleholders at Miss Nebraska Orientation, she immediately left to head back to Columbus for a major competition.

Still, to Alayna, this new title meant responsibility; to serve others. She’s volunteered for fundraisers in Columbus, Lincoln and Omaha, even using her Senior Skip Day to travel to Children’s Hospital and Medical Center to deliver care packages for the Miss Nebraska Serves project.

“My favorite part of this organization is the volunteer work!” said Alayna. “I love how each contestant has multiple hours of volunteer work under their belt. It’s so humbling to be among the amazing Miss Nebraska Class of 2017! There’s nothing that makes me happier than helping others.”

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And meeting others is part of what has made this journey so memorable for Alayna.

“It is an honor to be part of this organization. I love every minute of it,” said Alayna. “I have 15 new sisters, a sister queen and a little sister. This is a family. We are a family that supports and encourages each other. This gives me motivation when I need that extra push.”

I’m guessing the Nahorny’s would say the same thing about their network of superheroes. The strangers and neighbors, the celebrities and friends, the Duensings and Alayna Wilson… they are all part of a supportive and encouraging squad of strength who love Sammy like family.

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Sammy IS a superhero. This fall, just months after passing the 5th anniversary of his diagnosis, he’ll join us own personal Justice League to fight the evil that threatens so many innocent children just like him. We will find a way to beat cancer, allowing Sammy to find his purpose, just like his Superheroes Brian and Lisa Duensing have.

Alayna Wilson hopes to follow in their footsteps.

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“Each day is a new day for laughter and spreading happiness,” said Alayna. “I obviously hope to be Miss Nebraska whether that time is this year, or the next, or the next. I know that that is somewhere along my path. Overall, I hope to do my best and meet and influence people along the journey. My mission is to spread the name of Sammy’s Superheroes and spread love, happiness and encouragement as well.”

CLICK HERE to learn more about Sammy’s Superheroes

CLICK HERE to learn more about the Brian Duensing Foundation

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Click here to follow Miss Gering 2017 Alayna Wilson on Facebook!

Alayna was crowned at Crowns & Gowns 2017, Nebraska’s largest annual prom/pageant showcase.  CLICK HERE for more details about the 2018 pageant and event! You can also email Director of the Miss Gering/Miss Western Nebraska Pageant, Heather Hayes, by emailing Heather.Hayes@charter.com.

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The Miss Nebraska Pageant takes place June 7-10 in North Platte, Nebraska.

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PREVIOUS.. Miss Douglas County 2017 Kogan Murphy

NEXT.. Miss Heartland 2017 Allison Tietjen

To read more about this year’s contestants, or the Miss Nebraska/Miss Nebraska’s OT classes of 2014-2016 click the THERE SHE IS link at the top of the page!

Seasons of Love

525,600 minutes. How do you measure a year? In daylights. In sunsets. In midnights. In cups of coffee.  In inches. In miles. In laughter and strife.

How do you measure a year in the life… when you’re Miss Nebraska’s Outstanding Teen?

Less than 11 months ago, Hannah Miller was named Miss Nebraska’s Outstanding Teen 2016.  Tomorrow, after trips to Orlando and Atlantic City, performances all over Nebraska, appearances at dozens of events, and connections with countless children, Hannah will pass on her crown.

“I’m not sad that I’m passing on the title of Miss Nebraska’s Outstanding Teen. I had my year, and I made the most of it,” Hannah told me recently. “Now it’s time for another lucky young lady to have the same opportunities I had.”

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Photo courtesy Kamie Stephen for the North Platte Telegraph

Hannah rose to the top of an epic Miss Nebraska’s Outstanding Teen class jam-packed with talent, intelligence, civic leadership and grace.  She was articulate, magnetic and energetic from start to finish.  Immediately after she won the crown, Hannah devoted herself in preparation to compete for Miss America’s Outstanding Teen.

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“I had the shortest amount of time to get ready for nationals than any other Outstanding Teen in Nebraska’s history. So that consumed the majority of the first part of my reign,” said Hannah. “I went into nationals wanting to give it my all and not have any regrets on my performance or my experience and I can honestly say that I did exactly that. I gave everything I had in every part of the national competition and I walked away knowing that I represented Nebraska to the best of my ability. I had the experience of a lifetime and I wouldn’t change a thing.”

For the third year in a row, Miss Nebraska’s Outstanding Teen was among the top award winners at Miss America’s Outstanding Teen.  Hannah won a preliminary Evening Gown/On Stage Question award, and won a Top 5 Interview Award, her proudest moment in this once-in-a-lifetime experience.

Hannah came home and accepted the job that was only just beginning at the conclusion of competing at nationals.  Her new mission: find time for commitments as Miss Nebraska’s Outstanding teen and for the activities and wishes of an American teenager.  Hannah is also a student at Elkhorn High School and a competitive swimmer.

“Since I’m extremely active with swim and my other school activities, it was hard to find the perfect balance between being Miss Nebraska’s Outstanding Teen and being a student athlete,” said Hannah. “The first few months were rough. But with the help of my manager (aka my mom) I was able to find the perfect balance between my two vastly different worlds.”

Whereas Miss Nebraska attends most events and appearances across the state on her own throughout her year of service, Hannah was often accompanied by her incredibly supportive parents, Jim and Barb Miller.  During one of our program’s biggest weekends, Crowns and Gowns, Jim Miller drove Hannah to North Platte for a photo shoot, back to Omaha for a major swim meet, back to North Platte for a fashion show and autograph signing, and back to Omaha for school (and work!) on Monday.

I’m exhausted just typing that.

Hannah has often focused her speeches and messages on her personal platform, Safe Splashes, promoting water safety. (Click here to learn more!)

“Looking back, I will never forget going to the Olympic Trials, and having the opportunity to talk to children about the importance of water safety,” said Hannah. “I plan on continuing my work with ‘Josh the Otter’ and spreading water safety awareness. As Dory puts it, I’ll ‘Just keep swimming!'”

Hannah’s focus now is con continuing her education, using the thousands in scholarship money she collected through the Miss Nebraska’s Outstanding Teen program.

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“Right now I’m in the process of college planning,” said Hannah. “I plan on swimming in college and studying Elementary Education. To answer the burning question of if I’ll compete for Miss Nebraska someday, right now I’m not sure. I’m focused on college so I won’t be competing anytime soon!”

And this weekend, Hannah is focused not on herself and what she’s accomplished, but the 18 young women who hope to follow in her footsteps.

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“I want this year contestants to know that they have already made a huge impact on their communities and they are doing a terrific job promoting the Outstanding Teen program,” said Hannah. “Only one lucky girl will walk away as Miss Nebraska’s Outstanding Teen but you all have the opportunity to continue the great work you are already doing! You don’t need to wear a crown to make an impact!”

525,600 minutes. How do you measure a year?

In smiles. In dancing. In thank you’s. In high school swim meets.

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In appearances. DEFINITELY in miles. In friendships and impacting lives.

525,600 minutes.  Thank you, Hannah Miller Miss Nebraska’s Outstanding Teen 2016, for giving us this year of your life.

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WANT TO LEARN MORE ABOUT MISS NEBRASKA’S OUTSTANDING TEEN 2016 HANNAH MILLER?

CLICK HERE * 2016 * Just Keep Swimming

The Miss Nebraska’s Outstanding Teen Pageant takes place April 21-22 in Omaha, Nebraska.

CLICK HERE for more details, HERE to follow on Twitter, HERE to follow on Facebook.  For more information about becoming a contestant, email Director Heather Edwards at heatheraloseke@gmail.com

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PREVIOUS.. Miss Western Nebraska’s Outstanding Teen 2017 Whitney Miller

NEXT.. Miss Western Nebraska 2017 Devin Owens

To read more about this year’s contestants, or the Miss Nebraska/Miss Nebraska’s OT classes of 2014-2016 click the THERE SHE IS link at the top of the page!

The Chameleon Queen

I present to you the most amazing picture in the history of photography.

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Let’s just say Camilla was a tad excited to see Miss Nebraska Aleah Peters and to try on her crown.  This was one of my favorite moments from the weekend, when nine of this year’s Miss Nebraska contestants joined Aleah for an Omaha Princess Party as part of our #MissAmericaServes campaign.

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So. Much. Sass.  I LOVE IT.

This event raised an estimated $250, money that will be used to create care packages for open heart surgery patients through Abriendo Corazones, a mission founded by a medical team at Children’s Hospital and Medical Center.  (CLICK HERE to learn more!)  An incredible cause very close to my heart, made even better by seeing the looks in these little girls’ eyes as they got to meet ‘real life princesses’!

Who was your role model growing up?  My husband adored sports icons like Bo Jackson and Michael Jordan.  I was obsessed with celebrities, from the stars of Beverly Hills 90210 to New Kids on the Block and Boyz II Men.  Children are sponges and find inspiration everywhere, often zoning in on the people and things they are interested in.

A young woman from small-town Nebraska is a chameleon of sorts when it comes to what ‘type’ of woman she is… athlete, graduate student, survivor AND ‘princess’.

Miss Kearney 2017 Jessica Shultis

“I wholeheartedly believe that if you are going to do something it is essential to give 110%,” Jessica told me recently.  “I have been involved in athletics my entire life.  I believe that greatness is truly constructed when no one is looking.  It is the work that you put in behind the scenes that pays off in the long run.”

This is Jessica’s first and only year competing in the Miss Nebraska Pageant.  At 24, she’s already filled her resume with accolades from Centura High School, college at both Doane and the University of Nebraska – Lincoln and now graduate school in Doane’s Masters program.  Jessica is a multi-sport athlete, qualifying for state competition as a high school student and competing as a collegiate basketball player while completing her undergrad degree.

“Basketball has always been a large part of my life,” said Jessica.  “I recall getting a Little Tikes basketball hoop for my fourth birthday and stomping around the house in my dad’s basketball shoes.  As a little girl I dreamt of being a professional basketball player.  I had the opportunity to play basketball at the youth, junior high, high school, elite and collegiate level.  I have been had the opportunity to coach high school basketball.  Through basketball, I learned the value of perseverance, positivity and teamwork.  As a little girl shooting hoops in my parents’ driveway, I never thought that one day the lessons I learned from basketball would help me overcome one of my greatest obstacles: cancer.”

Jessica describes a frustrating sophomore year of college, a time filled with countless doctors visits and tests.  Her diagnosis: her body is predisposed to form tumors, a condition Jessica says she will face for the rest of her life.

“Without basketball, I’m not sure I would have possessed the mental strength to persevere through the following year,” said Jessica.

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So when crowned Miss Kearney last fall, Jessica decided to combine the two systems that helped her face her diagnosis: basketball and Children’s Miracle Network Hospitals.  She calls her platform ‘Hoops For Hope: Supporting Children’s Miracle Network.’

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“I am able to coach fundamental camps for today’s youth while raising funds to support an amazing cause,” said Jessica.  “All of the proceeds from the camps directly benefit the children and families at CMNH.”

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When she’s not hosting clinics in cities across Nebraska, Jessica is working on her Master’s degree, preparing to explore PhD programs in psychology. She also has two jobs;  as a mental health technician at Mental Health Crisis Center in Lincoln and as Cinderella, visiting classrooms and children throughout her community.

“I love to smile and laugh,” said Jessica.  “I truly believe that laughter is the best medicine. Moreover, I love to make other people smile because life is too short to be anything but happy and if I can be the reason someone smiles then I have done my job as a fellow human being.  My goal is to become Miss Nebraska and hopefully Miss America, to transform my statewide fundraiser into a nationwide fundraiser.  Both of these titles allow the women to reach countless people and make a significant difference in their lives, which is what I aspire to do.  The appearance opportunities also allow young women to gain confidence while promoting a cause that is important to them.  This helps young women grow and give back!”

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“The Miss America Organization is so much more than a beauty pageant,” said Jessica.  “It is a scholarship program that encourages young women to achieve greatness both personally and academically.  I want to encourage young girls to step outside their comfort zone and compete.  I will be forever thankful for this experience.”

Maybe your little girl wants to be a princess, too.  Maybe she wants to be an Olympian.  Maybe she wants to cure cancer.

The thing is.. she doesn’t have to choose.  Little girls can grow up to be women who do it all.

Miss Kearney Jessica Shultis is proof of that.

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“As I have grown up I have discovered who I am and what I want out of life,” said Jessica.  “My experiences have shaped the woman that I am today and I am extremely comfortable with myself.  In a society where media outlets constantly tell women ‘they aren’t good enough’, I believe it is essential to love yourself for who you are.”

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Click here to follow Miss Kearney 2017 Jessica Shultis on Facebook.

For more information about the Miss Kearney Pageant or for information about becoming a contestant, CLICK HERE to follow the organization on Facebook. You can also email Directors Megan Goeke and Jenna Lukasiewitz at jenna@hellobeautifulbridal.com or call 308-7-8-0678.

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The Miss Nebraska Pageant takes place June 7-10 in North Platte, Nebraska.

CLICK HERE for more detailsHERE to follow on TwitterHERE to follow on Facebook.

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PREVIOUS.. Miss Kearney’s Outstanding Teen 2017 Carsyn Long

NEXT.. Miss Gering’s Outstanding Teen 2017 Hope McCoy

To read more about this year’s contestants, or the Miss Nebraska/Miss Nebraska’s OT classes of 2014-2016 click the THERE SHE IS link at the top of the page!

It Takes a Village

For the first time in 16 years, Westside High School won a gold medal at the NSAA State Wrestling Championships this year.  In fact, TWO Warriors made it to the top of the podium.

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Josh Jansa and Darlondo Hill worked tirelessly all season and for years prior to earn this achievement.  So did a handful of men working nonstop behind the scenes.. their coaches. These student athletes are Head Coach Mike Jernigan’s FIRST state champions.

“Getting your first state champion makes a coach feel that ‘I finally did it.  I do know what I am doing!’” Jernigan told me. “Getting two in the same tournament is even better! I finally felt like I belonged to the coaching fraternity. To finally have a state champion to call our own is a great feeling. I know my assistant coaches haven’t stopped talking about it yet.”

Behind every star is a support network.  Oscar winners thank their agents, Olympic athletes thank their coaches, EVERYONE thanks the family members who cheered them on every step of the way.  The Miss Nebraska Organization is no different; behind every charismatic, stunning, role model.. there is a village.  Executive Director Rachel Daly spends countless hours preparing our titleholders to be the best they can be for Miss America and for their entire year of service.  President Janet Heinzle has volunteered for DECADES to constantly strengthen the program’s support network in North Platte, Nebraska and beyond.  Scholarship Director Megan Doughty spends time every day securing new financial opportunities with countless business partners and universities.  And Board Member Carol Halley has dedicated the last 25+ years to a group known as the Miss Nebraska Little Sisters.

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Photo courtesy Jenn Cady Photography

The Little Sister’s program was started as a good will gesture between girls in the community and Miss Nebraska contestants. They meet at orientation and spend much of Miss Nebraska week together, including time on stage during the pageant itself. These friendships often last for many years and create a lasting bond between the big sister and little sister; it’s a direct connection between outstanding role models and little girls who absolutely adore their ‘big sisters’. Carol organizes ALL of this, and the impact is during that week of competition and for years after is simply immeasurable.

Here’s proof:

Miss Harvest Moon Festival’s Outstanding Teen 2017 Kiera Rhodes

“When I was 10, I was a Little Sister in the Miss Nebraska Pageant,” Kiera told me recently.  “It was one of the most amazing experiences of my life.  My Big Sister was Mindy Schreiber; she was awesome.  Her talent was singing and I just looked up to her the whole time.  She got first runner up that year and I was so proud of her.  What I pulled away from that experience was the effect the girls had on my life.  I decided that I wanted to change people’s lives the way those girls did when I was younger.”

Mindy Schreiber, like so many of our contestants, is the textbook definition of ROLE MODEL.  She completed college in 3 years while working in her intended career field.  She held five local titles; a tireless advocate for her community, volunteering for the Teammates program.  She is kind, beautiful, healthy and hardworking.  And ‘little’ Kiera has emulated each and everyone of the traits she witnessed in her ‘big sister’.

“I am self motivated because I haven’t always needed someone to be telling me why and how I should do something, I just do it and I push myself to work hard for what I want,” said Kiera.  “I would like to say that I’m outgoing, I love talking and getting to know people.  I am very dedicated to the activities I am involved in; when I join something I always want to make sure I’m doing everything I can to help out.”

And boy, is this girl doing that as Miss Harvest Moon Festival’s Outstanding Teen.

Kiera is literally EVERYWHERE.  She’s signed autographs at carnivals, walked in charity fashion shows and volunteered at numerous local events.  Check out this article including Kiera in the North Platte Telegraph!  This busy sophomore, a student at North Platte High School, was selected for UNK Honor Choir this year, she’s performed the national anthem several times and she’s involved in musical productions in her hometown.  Singing is one of her favorite parts of being a titleholder and competing.

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Click here to hear Kiera’s recent national anthem performance at the District Basketball game in North Platte!

“I’ve always loved singing ever since I was little,” said Kiera.  “When I’m on stage singing, it’s like no one is watching and I’m just expressing my feelings.  It truly is an indescribable feeling.”

Kiera’s personal platform of service is ‘Bust A Smile – Break Down a Barrier’, encouraging others to break out of comfort zones to try something new or make a new friend.

“I really think a big problem we face today is not only the generational gaps but even the gaps within our own generations,” said Kiera. “More people need to realize that we all have a lot more in common than we think. Not only that but we can all teach each other valuable things if we would all just talk to one another more often.”

Fewer cliques, more connections.

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A mission that’s only been fueled by Kiera’s participation in the Miss Nebraska’s Outstanding Teen program.

“Obviously we all want to win, but only one of us can win,” said Kiera. “The girls I’ve met and competed against are girls that are very true and they are super nice and I know I’m going to have long lasting friendships with [them].”

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Kiera with Miss Twin Rivers 2017 Emma Wilkinson; both were Miss Nebraska Little Sisters

Tremendous maturity and perspective from a teenager, likely credited to her parents, her sisters both by blood and by title, and the volunteers who worked behind the scenes to pave her way to success.  Thanks to the village, women like Carol Halley, little girls across Nebraska grow up with a little extra sparkle.. then as young women share that with countless generations who follow their paths.  Miss Harvest Moon Festival’s Outstanding Teen Kiera Rhodes hopes to continue that legacy.

‘Little Girls with Dreams become Women with vision!’ – Carol Halley

“My biggest goal is just that I’ve impacted at least one person’s life in a good way,” said Kiera.  “Those girls taught me to be more confident in my opinions and that it’s ok to express your opinion.  Never be afraid to step out of your comfort zone.”

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CLICK HERE to follow Miss Harvest Moon Festival’s Outstanding Teen Kiera Rhodes.

For more information about the Miss Harvest Moon Festival/Miss Alliance/Miss Panhandle’s Outstanding Teen Pageant and to become a contestant, email Director Melinda Cullan at maot.alliance@gmail.com.

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The Miss Nebraska’s Outstanding Teen Pageant takes place April 21-22 in Omaha, Nebraska.

CLICK HERE for more details, HERE to follow on Twitter, HERE to follow on Facebook. For more information about becoming a contestant, email Director Heather Edwards at heatheraloseke@gmail.com

For more information about the Miss Nebraska Little Sister Program CLICK HERE.

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PREVIOUS.. Miss Old West Balloon Fest 2017 Tristen Wecker

NEXT.. Miss Eastern Nebraska’s Outstanding Teen 2017 Naomi Turner

To read more about this year’s contestants, or the Miss Nebraska/Miss Nebraska’s OT classes of 2014-2016 click the THERE SHE IS link at the top of the page!

III

This is my 3rd season for Throwback Thursday.

Nebraska’s first game of 2016 is on September 3.

The first Husker to take a trip with me down memory lane this year.. a player known to many as simply RK3.

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#12 Ron Kellogg III, Class of 2013

The Rule of 3’s is certainly at play here, but it’s not the only factor contributing to my choice to kick off this years series.  Ron Kellogg III is also a proud Westside Warrior, an alum of the school district I now proudly represent as Director of Communications & Engagement.  These first few weeks in my new role have been an absolute pleasure; I am BLOWN AWAY by the level of devotion and innovation this District has for the thousands of young people who learn here everyday.  To share these stories on a daily basis is truly an honor.

For Kellogg, his time as a prized student athlete at Westside had a huge impact on his trajectory into Nebraska Football history, a journey that began several years before he started high school.

“I have a picture of myself on Halloween in a #12 Nebraska uniform, so I guess you could say it was fate I would be a part of the Husker program,” Kellogg told me recently.  “The main reason I went to Nebraska is all because of Eric Crouch.  He signed a picture I drew for him and he wrote me a message saying Go Big Red, shook my hand and took a picture.  I waited 2 hours and 30 minutes to get that 2-minute encounter.  Thanks, Eric! LOL.”

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At Westside, Kellogg was the star quarterback who led his team to state playoffs his senior year, passing for 12 touchdowns.  The Lincoln Journal Star gave him Class A All-State honors, and several colleges including Northwest Missouri State and North Dakota offered him scholarships.  Kellogg wanted to stay red.

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Kellogg, surrounded by his parents, signing his letter of intent to play football for Nebraska

“D1 schools did not recruit me heavily.  I was actually only offered a walk-on spot because I won a quarterback camp at Nebraska,” said Kellogg.  “When I was given my opportunity to play, I knew from that point on, I needed to show everyone #1: that walk-ons can play, #2: that every time I put on that helmet representing this great state I would be an example for those young men watching in the stands or at home that with heart, determination, and a pinch of humbleness you can compete with the best of them.”

And he did.  After waiting patiently for three seasons, Kellogg finally saw playing time in several games his junior year.  His senior year, 2013, everything changed when 4-year starter Taylor Martinez suffered a foot injury.  Kellogg completed 4-of-5 passes against Southern Miss.  He completed another 8-of-9 passes against SDSU.  Game after game he was consistent and strong.. but when Nebraska played Northwestern, he became legend.

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Kellogg threw a 49-yard Hail Mary touchdown pass to then redshirt freshman Jordan Westerkamp, the first game-winning Hail Mary TD in Nebraska history.

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“My favorite moments are talking with fans about that night,” said Kellogg.  “Apparently I am the reason A) they had to buy a new TV and B) I caused a couple to go the hospital due to heart attacks.”

Believe it or not, that game is not Kellogg’s standout memory when he looks back at his time at Nebraska.

“My favorite moment was the Penn State game,” said Kellogg.  “It started to snow.  It was picture perfect to be in that historic stadium, the fans in all-white, and then snow started to fall.  Plus we won in overtime.”

For years, Ron Kellogg had been the guy in the background while Husker nation focused its attention on other players.  Suddenly, he was THE guy, the big fish swimming in a Sea of Red.

“It was definitely an eye opening experience,” said Kellogg.  “No one prepares you to be in situations where everyone from the elderly to toddlers, know EVERYTHING about you, from knowing all about my family to what classes I was taking.  You have to be mentally prepared for that, and most importantly, you have to be careful.  Fame and power can swallow a sane person whole.  But, that fame part is something I will never get over, not because it’s cool to take pictures with people or talk about ‘what is was like to throw the hail mary’; it’s much more than that.  My senior year of playing Nebraska football was the best time of my life.  I was able to impact and reach people that I never thought I could prior.”

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Photo courtesy Stephen Rickerl for the Fremont Tribune

Kellogg won the Nebraska Student-Athlete HERO Leadership Award in 2012, was on the Brook Berringer Citizenship Team in 2012 and 2013, and the Tom Osborne Citizenship Team in 2014.

“There is nothing I love more than talking Husker football with people,” said Kellogg.  “Especially the kids.  If my words inspire them to be a Husker I know my job is done.”

Ironically, guiding young athletes IS now Kellogg’s job; he’s the Athletic Director at Dawes Middle School in Lincoln, currently in his second year.

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Photo courtesy Gwyneth Roberts for the Lincoln Journal Star

“I am a part of these students’ lives from athletics to academics and social life,” said Kellogg.  “It’s honestly the most interesting thing in the world seeing these young boys and girls grow up and mature.  The crazy part is sitting back at the end of a school year and being able to say to yourself and your team of staff that you were a part of helping these children go on to the next level.  I love every moment of it because I feel like I am making a difference one way or another.”

Kellogg will also be watching a few other students this fall… his Huskers, now led by an entirely different regime than he had during his days at Nebraska.  He offers his support for Coach Riley, and for wide receivers coach Keith Williams, recently arrested for DUI.

“I have faith he’ll straighten up and continue to be the dominant leader of the team,” said Kellogg.  “Look at what he does with his players and NFL players, and how he uses social media.  As a fan, you have to be excited about this.”

Kellogg is also excited to watch De’Mornay Pierson El, a guy he calls ‘explosive’, able to impact the game from special teams to offense.

“With that kind of weapon, not to mention the other five wideouts we have, and the mobility and absurd arm strength Tommy has, we can make some noise,” said Kellogg.

Speaking of noise.. Ron Kellogg isn’t ready to go quietly into the Nebraska night.  A proud ‘Westside Warrior for life!’ he wants to return to his alma mater someday to coach and teach, and maybe lead a new generation of nationally respected athletes.

“My dream job is to build a performance center,” said Kellogg.  “I want to be able to wake up everyday and say to myself, I am going to send this set amount of student athletes to compete in Division 1, D2 or D3 athletics.  I truly believe there are students athletes here [in Nebraska] that should be playing D1 sports and maybe they just need help or a little nudge in the right direction.”

It wasn’t so long ago, Ron Kellogg was that guy, the walk-on from Westside High School who became a Nebraska Football star.   In 2013, he was awarded the Tom Novak Award, described by Nebraska Athletics as “an honor which best exemplifies courage and determination despite all odds.”

“I had extra drive to show kids throughout the state of Nebraska, that ‘hey! You can do this!’  You don’t need any stars next to your name to make an impact,” said Kellogg.  “I guess you can say I am living proof that if you put your mind to something, you can accomplish it.”

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Many thanks to Ron for the interview.. and for his incomparable softball skills helping Team Benning dominate the 2015 Celebrity Softball game!

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Twirling To The Top

Last night, I had one of those moments where I just stopped, breathed deeply, and thought ‘this is the life!’  My boys, my man and I were all at the pool.. I was listening to them splash and laugh together, while I laid in the glorious sun for a few blissful minutes.

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Then I immediately felt GUILT… why was I just lying there?!? I should have been in the pool WITH them, right?!?  I *hope my guilt was unfounded.. that after a long two months of blog-writing, documentary-producing, news-anchoring, event-emceeing, etc… it was OK for me to sit and relax.

However, there are those among us who never stop.  They use every moment of every day to their full advantage.They rarely take a break for downtime… and in return, every day they are one step closer to the top of whatever peak they are climbing.  They define ‘outstanding’ in their attitudes, goals, and the way they touch people along that journey.

Steffany Lien has spent the last year twirling to the top.

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Photo courtesy Jenn Cady Photography

“It has been a busy year, but I wouldn’t have had it any other way!’ said Steffany, who  next week, will pass on her title as Miss Nebraska’s Outstanding Teen.  Anyone who was there to watch Steffany last year (click here to read more!) will tell you how outstanding this young woman truly is.

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Steffany started her year as Miss Nebraska’s Oustanding Teen with media coverage across Nebraska.  CLICK HERE to read her story in the Lincoln Journal Star!

Let’s start with her talent… which is WORLD CLASS.

“I compete with baton twirling,” said Steffany.

OK, STOP.  Steffany doesn’t just COMPETE with baton twirling

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Steffany is a 6-TIME World Champion baton twirler.  Her talent WOWED the crowd at Miss America’s Outstanding Teen (more on that later..) and leaves audiences EVERYWHERE in awe.  Steffany and her incredible gift have been featured by Omaha’s Metro Magazine, by television news outlets, by the University of Nebraska-Lincoln, by the Madonna Rehabilitation Hospital in Lincoln, even as part of the Pegasus Parade at the Kentucky Derby.  This spring, she was also selected by the University of Louisville to be the school’s featured twirler, a highly coveted position including a full-ride scholarship.Folks, that’s $25,000+ A YEAR.

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Steffany has fine-tuned and perfected this incredible gift with years of training and performing, and showcasing her art has been a highlight of her year as Miss Nebraska’s Outstanding Teen.

“I was invited to perform for the Big Red Tailgate to benefit the Completely Kids Program in Omaha,” said Steffany.  “Not only was I proud to be the headliner at the event that raised $175,000 to combat childhood hunger and provide after school programs, but Tommie Frazier sang ‘Dear Old Nebraska U’ a capella while I twirled!”

“Performing at the Kentucky Derby and the Pegasus Parade was clearly a highlight of my year,” said Steffany.  “When I signed autographs and took pictures with people at a festival the same weekend in Kentucky, the people there couldn’t have been nicer to Miss Nebraska’s Outstanding Teen!”

CLICK HERE to read more about Steffany’s performance at Churchill Downs, thanks to the Lincoln Journal Star!

As I’ve written about previously, the Miss Nebraska’s Outstanding Teen program is the ‘little sister’ organziation to Miss Nebraska, all part of the Miss America Organization.  One of the biggest differences between the Teen and Miss program.. these teens are also STUDENTS.  While their Miss counterparts often defer their college entrance or postpone classes during their year of service, Teen titleholders take part in events and service all year IN ADDITION to their time in the classroom.  Steffany is no exception; in fact, she’s set a new standard for what is possible, even expected, out of these exceptional young women.

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“I dance and compete with Madonna ProActive Dance Team, I teach baton twirling at Madonna ProActive, I’m in National Honor Society, and I’ve maintained a weighted 4.28 GPA,” said Steffany, who just graduated this May from Lincoln Southwest High School.  “Most importantly, I had decided early on to leave a legacy of active participation at charitable events, so this year I performed at, appeared for, and worked at an average of two events a week for the year.  This means that I have participated in over 110 events as Miss Nebraska’s Outstanding Teen.  My white sash is now grey, my crown is spotted from raindrops and races, my tennis shoes have logged miles for health runs, and I need new heels!  It has been a very busy schedule, but I have loved every moment because I will remember these experiences for the rest of my life.”

The montage above barely scratches the SURFACE of the photos posted on the Miss Nebraska’s Outstanding Teen Facebook page, showcasing Steffany’s service this year.  She also returned to Peru on a mission trip with orphans, work she has dedicated countless hours to over the years. (Click here to read more!)

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“When I became Miss Nebraska’s Outstanding Teen, I expected to be out and about in the community, attending charity events and promoting a variety of organizations,” said Steffany, who has volunteered for the Child Advocacy Center of Lincoln, Kids Against Hunger, March of Dimes of Omaha, Food Bank of Lincoln, People’s City Mission, the Autism Family Network, the Alzheimer’s Association, Pinwheels for Prevention, the LSW Parent’s Advisory Council… the list goes ON AND ON AND ON.  “While this was my main focus throughout the year, the part I had not anticipated was how much these experiences would change me and how I view life.”

THIS is the caliber of young woman we want to represent our state, do we not?  And Steffany did, oh so well, at the 2016 Miss America’s Outstanding Teen Pageant in Orlando, Florida.

For the second year in a row, Miss Nebraska’s Outstanding Teen finished in the Top 10 in this national competition, in front of the 2016 Miss America Class and tens of thousands, if not more, online.  Steffany had a clear impact on the audience and the organization, later featured by MAOT on their Facebook page, and drawing wide support from fans across social media.

CLICK HERE to read more about Steffany’s success at Miss America’s Outstanding Teen, in an article featured by KETV!

“Miss America’s Outstanding Teen was amazing, and so different from any other experience I’ve ever had,” said Steffany.  “I loved meeting other young women from across the US, and gaining friendships that will last a lifetime.  I was surprised to hear my name in the Top 10, because every girl competing at MAOTeen was well-spoke, talented, and we had all been working hard leading up to the national pageant.  For me, it was just an honor to be standing among them, but it was also satisfying to maek the Top 10 and be able to represent Nebraska at the competition.”

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Steffany came home from Orlando with $3100 in scholarship money, adding to the $1500 she won at Miss Nebraska’s Outstanding Teen.  She also caught the attention of designers Tony Bowls and Ashley Lauren, nationally renowed photographer Jenn Cady, as well as Lincoln boutique The Black Swan, leading to several modelling opportunities throughout her year.

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Photo courtesy Jenn Cady Photography

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“The big events, the fashion shots with Ashley Lauren and Tony Bowls, and all of those wonderful purple bags from the Black Swan Dress Boutique bring me more pleasure than I’d like to admit,” said Steffany.  “However, I had one recent experience that made me understand the real meaning of being an outstanding teen.  Last week, a mom unpacked her daughter’s backpack at the end of the school year.  In it, she found a paper her daughter had written in school after given an assignment to write about someone that is important to her.  I was surprised this quiet, thoughtful child wrote about me.  I had no idea the impact on her values and her perspective about my attitude and ‘kindness’.  And although I giggled that she wrote I am the ‘world’s most amazing teen’, I am humbled and know that the title of Miss Nebraskas’ Outstanding Teen is one that I hold for life and that I better live up to this little girl’s expectations!”

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One year ago, Steffany Lien looked up and focused on her goals and dreams.  While many of us would get tired, and take a break, she kept climbing.. or in her case, twirling.

When Steffany represented Nebraska on the national stage this year, her program’s new directors, Kali Tripp and Heather Edwards, created her catch phrase: #TwirlingToTheTop.

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Steffany Lien has EARNED blissful moments poolside or otherwise.  She IS the top.. the essence of what it means to be outstanding, and a young woman our state will continue to be so very proud of.

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Photo courtesy Jenn Cady Photography

Even now, as the clock winds down on her time as Miss Nebraska’s Outstanding Teen, Steffany continues to put others ahead of herself.

“More than anything, I am thrilled for the next girl who will earn the crown, and can’t wait to see all the great qualities she will bring to this organization and how she will represent Nebraska.”

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CLICK HERE to follow Miss Nebraska’s Outstanding Teen 2015 Steffany Lien on Instagram

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For more information on becoming a Miss Nebraska’s Outstanding Teen contestant, contact Director Heather Edwards at heatheraloseke@gmail.com or Director Kali Tripp at kalinicoletv@gmail.com.

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The 2016 Miss Nebraska Scholarship Pageant takes place June 8-11 in North Platte, Nebraska.  Learn more on THEIR WEBSITE, FACEBOOK PAGE, or follow ON TWITTER and ON INSTAGRAM.

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