A Survivor’s Story

Last week, I was ready to dazzle all of my readers with an award winning blog called ‘Maternity Clothes Make Me Want To Punch Things.’

I’m really NOT an angry person, but it is so hard to find flattering, bright, inexpensive clothing that is appropriate for work when you are expecting!  Ladies, can I get a Heck Ya!!?

HOWEVER, just as I posted one week ago, I again had the honor of putting together a story this week that reminded me of how little I have to complain about.  Now or any other time.

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photo courtesy of Marissa & Ashley Bunn

The beautiful blonde in this picture is Ashley Bunn.  One year ago this weekend, her ex-boyfriend shot her twice in the face right outside her house.

Ashley, just 24, has overcome more in the last year than anyone should have to endure in a lifetime.  Physically, 8 surgeries to reconstruct her jaw, face and neck.  Emotionally, finding a way to close her eyes every night without replaying those moments over and over and over in her mind.  Ashley remembers every, single second.

Driving to Fremont last week for our interview, I expected a very emotional talk.  This brave woman didn’t shed a tear.  She’s that strong.  Even stronger, she’s sharing her story now because she just wants to THANK everyone who helped her get through the last year, and she wants to help any other woman (or guy!) in an abusive relationship.  There were several moments during our interview I realized that I forgot to breathe, her message is that powerful.

Tonight at 10, Ashley walks you through every moment of that night, and the warning signs that popped up in the months and years beforehand.

Her journey will leave you INSPIRED, and more importantly, will hopefully compel you or someone you love to get help in an abusive relationship.   Ashley’s is a story that is hard to forget; I certainly won’t.  I hope you tune in TONIGHT AT 10!!

Thanks, Ashley, for the perspective.  And thank you for showing all of us such courage and optimism!

A Mother’s Heart

Once in a while, God shoots a story my way reminding me of how incredibly lucky we are to be preparing for a summer with our sweet little man and our new precious gift.

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Stories like this one, from the DeHoek family at the Nebraska Medical Center. Lindsey and Brian DeHoek were just like us and so many other parents; expecting a new baby and preparing another child to soon be a big brother. Baby Ethan surprised everyone, arriving three months early at the family’s hospital in Grand Rapids, Michigan. Doctors gave the DeHoeks news I can’t even imagine without tearing up, that their new son was born with dead intestines and probably wouldn’t survive.

HE DID. Ethan is 6 months old and going strong in Omaha, awaiting an intestinal transplant. In the meantime, his mom and dad are commuting back and forth between Nebraska and Michigan, balancing time between sweet little Ethan and older brother, 5-year-old Parker. Can you imagine?!? Being separated from your family by thousands of miles, while facing such an emotional roller coaster. I think of the DeHoeks often and can’t wait to update their story when Ethan is healthy and reunited with his ENTIRE family in Michigan.

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Thanks to Alegent Creighton Health & Jodi Hoatson for the photo!

You’ll see THIS story tonight. This beautiful woman is Jenny Petz. At 32 years old, she suffered a heart attack just 8 days after giving birth to her second child, Kai. Instead of watching her little girl, then just a toddler, interacting with a new baby brother, and soaking in each and every moment with her son, Jenny was in cardiovascular rehab, recovering from a moment that almost killed her. Tonight at 10, Jenny will share her message–what caused her heart attack and how you can prevent the same thing from happening to you or someone you love. She’s truly an inspiration–I can’t imagine juggling a toddler, a newborn, AND life after open heart surgery. But she DID IT. And she’ll amaze you, too!

One of the great things about my job: the people we meet, the stories we get to share, and the reminders of what amazing things people can overcome. Reminders to appreciate all of the good we all take for granted, and reminders to look forward to the incredible things to come 🙂

‘You’ll be his first kiss, his first love, his first friend. You are his momma, and he is your whole world. He is your little boy.

There And Back Again.. A Momma’s Tale

I truly admire the beautiful, pregnant women I see on Pinterest who wear fashion forward maternity clothes and look EXACTLY the same as they did pre-baby, only with a little added bump.

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Ok.. maybe admire isn’t the right word..

I am NOT one of those women.  With my first baby, and so far in this pregnancy, I have gained weight EVERYWHERE, not just my belly.  I see it in my reflection.. I see it in clips of myself during my stories.

Granted, I’ve also welcomed cheese pizza, Dairy Queen and this mocha-chip-a-chocolate thing on my desk back into my life with open arms.

But it’s never too late to be healthier, right?  And I’m truly lucky to have some great inspiration and help to do just that!

For expectant mothers–or anyone for that matter!!–I have a GREAT blog for you to check out: TerminatorMom!  The author, Megan, is a local mother of three who embraced changing her diet and exercise after the birth of her second child.  SHE. LOOKS. INCREDIBLE.  But what is so inspiring to me is her attitude and what these changes have meant for her energy level and the way she approaches life.  She makes me feel like I can do anything if I just put my mind to it!

CLICK HERE to watch our story on KETV sharing the ‘secrets’ of how Hot Mommas BECAME Hot Mommas!

Megan wrote an awesome blog awhile back detailing some great smoothie recipes you can try at home.  It’s a great motivator for me to eat more fruits and yogurt because I feel like I’m cheating getting a smoothie, even though I’m eating something really nutritious!  CLICK HERE to check it out! (And all of Megan’s other great advice on exercise, recipes, and health)

Megan has told me before, and I forward this on to ANYONE hoping to live a healthier life, DON’T FOCUS ON THE NUMBER–focus on how you feel.  I want to know I am eating as healthy as possible for my little boy, and setting myself up to feel good all-around after my second little man is born.  But for now, ONE SMOOTHIE, PLEASE!

(As soon as I finish off the boxes of Girl Scout cookies I plan to order from Andy Kendeigh’s daughter… 🙂

“All you need is love.” See? Nothing about pants. –@HonestToddler

This Magic Moment

One click of a button, and an image on a screen makes your heart flip.  A face.  You know how small it is.. how tiny his whole little body is at this point, but he’s there.  His eyes, his little button nose, even a touch of hair at the top of his head.  He’s a tiny, little person; and he is our son.

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I’m BAAA-AACK! Anchor’s Away has cast off again in anticipation of a whole new adventure.. a new baby in our family!  My husband, Brian, and I will welcome our second child early this summer.  We’ll soon have two little boys ganging up on us at home.  Add our dog, Mack, to the bunch, and I’ll be the lone lady in a house full of boys.  And I can’t wait 🙂

 I’m blogging a little earlier than last time, and hope you’ll follow along on this journey!  Prepare yourself for Star Wars references, whining about maternity clothes, and blogs about splurges on cheese pizza and Dairy Queen!  And PLEASE, share your stories about your kiddos and pregnancies (or, Dads, sympathy pains!)!  I can’t wait to hear from you!

THANK YOU for your love and support, and THANK YOU for flattering me by checking out Anchor’s Away! The next few months (and years!) will be a wonderful adventure!

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ROCK A BYE BABY

So You Think You Can (Watch) Dance

Hello–long time no see!  I know, I know.. I’ve been neglecting my blogging duties, AGAIN.  And this post has nothing to do with motherhood, KETV, or journalism.. it’s about my not-so-secret addiction.

I adore the TV show ‘So You Think You Can Dance’.  Yeah, yeah, yeah.. I know it’s on another network. Yeah, yeah, yeah, anyone who knows me will tell you I have issues WALKING most of the time, let alone attempting to dance.  But I HEART this show.  Every Friday night, after I put my baby to bed, I settle down in the living room with the dog and we watch SYTYCD (and the best part about THIS plan.. I can watch both that weeks performances AND the elimination in one sitting!  I love DVR!!!)

Last week, this season wrapped up with an INCREDIBLE finale show.. and as they do every year, the judges picked their favorite routines of the season.  Shockingly, SYTYCD never contacted me about my picks.. so HERE are my Top 10!  If you’re as addicted to this show as I am–give me your list, too!! If you’re not a fan of the show.. you might be after you check out these clips–these dancers are phenomenal!!!

#10

TIE between Caitlynn & Mitchell’s contemporary to Celine Dion, and Sonya Tayeh’s Geisha dance for the Top 10 Girls

Caitlynn & Mitchell, I LOVE this song and the gave me chills… the Geisha dance, just weird and awesome and cool

#9

The Statue Routine with Melanie & Marko

Forgot how much I liked this.. especially when the music kicks up towards the end

#8

Caitylnn & all star Ivan hip hop

I heart Ivan 🙂  SYTYCD’s Justin Timberlake

#7

Melanie & Marko hip hop, the Kiss routine

aw 🙂 I just love them

#6

Week One, featuring Season 8’s Hip Hop dancers

LOVE this dance.. I remember seeing this week 1 thinking ‘I’m so glad my show is back!!’

#5

Melanie & all star Neal, Total Eclipse of the Heart

When Melanie throws herself about 10 feet towards Neal, I literally gasped in my living room. AMAZING.

#4

Melanie’s standing ovation solo

Another ‘moment’ for me.. when she finished, I said OUT LOUD to myself, ‘Holy. Cow.’

#3

Tadd & all star Lauren, Another One Bites The Dust

Tee hee–LOVE this dance.  Tadd is AWESOME!

#2

Ricky & all star Anya, River Deep Mountain High jive

Why didn’t this routine get more love?!? I LOVE LOVE LOVED IT!! It just makes me smile–LOVE Anya so much!

AND MY #1 ROUTINE OF THE SEASON IS….

Sasha & all star Twitch, the Soggy Cornflakes routine

JUST FREAKING AWESOME.  I actually saved this episode on my DVR so I could watch this routine more than once.  Other than the Allison & Ivan contemporary of seasons past, this is my all-time FAVORITE!!!

Yeah, I need help.  Anyone know of a SYTYCD support group?  🙂

God Bless The USA

First off, welcome home to the 105 soldiers from Iowa’s 1st Battalion of the 168th Infantry after a yearlong tour in Afghanistan.   We are so thankful for your service to our country!

CLICK HERE to watch Natalie Glucklich’s INCREDIBLE story on KETV of the welcome home celebration for the 168th!

This week’s return was bittersweet for this unit, as they lost one of their own while serving overseas.  Sergeant Brent Maher was killed by a roadside bomb in April.  Sergeant Maher had ties to Honey Creek and Council Bluffs, Iowa.  Hundreds lined streets for his funeral services, and his name is now etched in stone at the Council Bluffs War Memorial, so no one forgets the sacrifice he made for our freedom.

We’ve lost so many local troops, soldiers, marines, etc.  These men and women go to battle so we won’t have to here.    They leave their families, miss milestones in their children’s lives, all so we can go about our day to day lives safe and free.  I cannot IMAGINE being apart from my husband or son for so long, and I can’t imagine what the family members of our troops go through.  So I ABSOLUTELY LOVE seeing the homecomings, reunions, and celebrations when our troops come home.

Aaron Williams, surprising his daughter in Council Bluffs

 Thanks to Chris Hicks for posting this pic to U-Local!

One of my favorite new shows is Surprise Homecoming on TLC.  It features troops coming home and surprising their children, fiances, sisters, you name it.  I. LOVE. IT.  It shows the core of all of us–pure emotion, love, joy–at the end of the day, money doesn’t matter, status doesn’t matter, all of the things we stress and worry about don’t matter.

All you need is love.  

(Thank you John Lennon and Paul McCartney)l

To all of our troops, now home or still fighting for our country,

THANK YOU.

Sunrise, Sunset

As a kid, I remember hearing people say ‘time just goes too fast’, ‘where has the time gone?’, ‘I blink and a month has passed!’  And as a kid, I didn’t understand..  I was watching the clock, waiting for the weekend when I could sit at home in my big glasses and play Nintendo.

Maybe it’s an adult theme because we cram so much into our schedules, by choice or otherwise.  We’re parents, we work, we play, we have family events, we have appointments, we have errands to run, and to-do’s that never seem to get done.

This week, I realized I’VE blinked and my baby is now almost 6 months old.  And that I’m 30.  And that neither my friends, nor myself, are the free-spirited young ‘uns that somehow I still picture us as.

First, I picked up a card for my good friends who are celebrating their wedding anniversary this week (sorry to ruin the surprise at the mailbox, Jen—card’s in the mail!)  I was writing a message inside and realized this is their 5th anniversary.

WAIT, WHAT?!?  That was five years ago??  Was it THAT long ago we didn’t have kids and mortgages?  That long ago we were just barely beginning our careers, some of us still in school?!?.  I think my biggest concern that day was how hot it was going to be (and it WAS hot), or how badly my shoes would hurt my feet.

Before this post sounds any more like a John Mellencamp song, I’ll get to the point; five years sounds like such a long time.. but it seems like FIVE MINUTES ago that we were all together, high school friends, celebrating a beautiful day for Jenni and Joe.

Where’s Waldo for viewers.. can you spot the two KETV reporters (one is now ‘retired’) in this picture?

So there was that.  Then, an ADORABLE update from former KETV sports-comedian and current sports talk radio host, Matt Schick and his wife Kelly on their son, Coen.  Coen is just a few months older than Easton, so I’m always eager to see what he’s doing.. it’s kind of a trailer for what I can expect in my own house three months down the road.  Coen is now CRAWLING.. and EATING CHEERIOS.. and SAYING MOMMA.

That’s huge folks, huge.   Easton already has me wrapped around his finger.. when he says the ‘M’ word, I’m a goner.

It seems like YESTERDAY (see?!? Another grown-up thought!) our little guy was just a peanut… swaddled up and in his swing, so itty-bitty in his car seat I’d put rolled up receiving blankets around him so he would feel more secure.  He is almost SIX MONTHS OLD.. eating from a spoon, reaching for toys and our faces, smiling at pretty girls, and realizing he can make noise.. LOUD noise! (I wonder where he gets THAT from.. )

Seeing Coen reminded me of how much more is in store for us.. how much more joy we have to look forward to.  And how SOON our baby will be our boy.  Our walking, talking, able-to-do-things-on-his-own-like-a-little-person-son.

I’m so excited for all of that.. but also just STUNNED.  Who’s got the remote and is holding down the fast-forward button?  I need to pause for just a second.. just to sit back and take in every moment.  Or to at least take a nap and not miss anything.  🙂

Thanks for reading!

Brandi

Healthy Dose Of Thanks

Thanks for coming back!  My poor, poor blog hasn’t been getting much love lately.. I’ll touch base more often-I swear!  Thanks for sticking with me 🙂

Last week, I had the great honor of visiting the NICU reunion at the Methodist Women’s Hospital in west Omaha.  Hundreds of families whose babies spent some time in the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit met back up with the nurses and doctors who took care of their little ones for days, weeks or months at a time.

CLICK HERE to watch our story!

First off, I WAS IN HEAVEN.  BABIES EVERYWHERE!! So much cuteness crammed into one room–it was amazing!!

Second, this experience just further solidified my appreciation for nurses and what an INCREDIBLE job they do, and how much love they bring to their patients.  These staff members treat so many patients daily, monthly, YEARLY, yet the care and compassion they had for their patients was so very clear.  One dad even told me, as his 8-month old little boy smiled and laughed at his nurse, “I think he recognizes her–he remembers her!”

I delivered my baby at Bergan Mercy Medical Center and our nurses were ABSOLUTELY PHENOMENAL.  They were so kind, warm and comforting every step of the way.  We kept saying “this nurse is so great–I don’t want her to go home!”  But then a new nurse would start her shift, and she was just as nice and wonderful as the last nurse!

Now at home, I am a VERY frequent caller to both my pediatrician’s office and to the nurse’s helpline, asking anything and EVERYTHING I can’t figure out about my son.  “Is he supposed to do that?  Is this OK?”  And every time, the nurses are so wonderfully patient and kind with me.

If you know a nurse, give her or him a hug and tell them how appreciated they are.  To my Aunt Jodi, to Patty and Ashley, to Kylie, to Christie, and to every other hardworking nurse out there helping your patients (and new parents!) when we need you most, THANK YOU.

Nurses are angels in comfortable shoes.  ~Author Unknown

Someone Deserves a Raise..

And that someone is the ad campaign manager for Wal-Mart.  Their new commercials are HILARIOUS–I just saw the latest last night.  Here are my favorites:

“I’ve never seen that guy in my life”

“Grandpa’s gonna be so happy when he wakes up”

“This is a camping trip, not a sleeping trip!”

It’s so good to laugh–and for me, these commercials do it every time 🙂

On a side note.. and completely my opinion, and my opinion alone.. I saw during Andy’s sportscast last night that Texas was booed during Opening Ceremonies at the CWS.  Really? Really?!  Regardless of how you feel about the Big XII situation, the Texas Network, etc.. these young men and their coaches have worked extremely hard to get where they are, and they are a part of one of the biggest sports events in the country.  They deserve respect for that accomplishment.

C’mon, Omaha, we’re better than that.

Return of the Jedi

RIIIIIGHT…  But if there’s a way to reference Star Wars, I’ll do it!  (By the way.. did you know the original title for the movie was REVENGE of the Jedi? Yes.. I’m a nerd..)

To those who’ve been so wonderful to me and have been reading my random ramblings here, I’m so sorry I’ve neglected this site.. and I’ll try to do a much better job.  I can’t tell you how honored I am that you check in and check out my blog!

Since my last post, I returned to work, my baby has grown so much!, and we’ve slowly started to figure out a new, wonderful routine.   It’s been great to be back at work.  I truly love what I do–I love telling stories, WRITING stories, meeting people and getting to share information with people every night.  I’m a mother, and a wife, but I’m also a journalist–and it’s so fulfilling to be able to say my “job” is doing something I enjoy so much.  Things have changed though.. my Easton is ALWAYS on my mind–I miss him terribly during the day, and he’s made me view everything differently.  I look at things as a ‘parent’–and whether it’s a story about a toy recall or a child’s injury or death, I have a completely new perspective.  For example, we had a story from Joplin, Missouri after the tornado, and the reporter described how the twister literally pulled a toddler out of her parents arms and the family still didn’t know what had happened to her.  I laid in bed that night just thinking of those people… and my heart broke for them.  I don’t think I’d be able to go on without my family.

There’ve been great moments, too–telling stories.

CLICK HERE for an exclusive look behind the scenes at TD Ameritrade Park, the new home of the College Word Series

CLICK HERE to learn about the Omaha volunteers who headed to Joplin after this spring’s massive tornado

CLICK HERE to meet Evan Sharp, an INCREDIBLE young man bravely fighting cancer, inspiring everyone around him

At home, things are WONDERFUL.  I’d often heard it before our son was born, but it’s incredible how much LOVE you can feel for someone.  Easton is growing everyday–I swear, I come home sometimes and know he got bigger since I left that afternoon!  This week, he rolled over for the first time and it was just EXHILERATING!! Every milestone, every smile, makes every moment perfect 🙂

A few notes from the ‘unsolicited advice’ files.. if you are an expectant parent, two books I can’t recommend enough:  Baby 411 and Sleeping Through The Night.  Baby 411 could also be titled Cliffs Notes For Raising a Child… it covers every category you can think of in a comprehensive, yet easy to understand way.  Sleeping Through The Night… enough said 🙂  But if you’re WEAK like me and can’t handle hearing your baby cry, it provides a good middle-of-the-road strategy to help your child sleep without sitting outside his/her room crying yourself 🙂

Thanks for your patience during my blogging sabbatical.. I hope your summer is starting off great 🙂  And ENJOY THE COLLEGE WORLD SERIES!!  Best of luck to the eight teams coming to Omaha hoping to leave champions 🙂